How we mistake goals to be our life purpose.
“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what it is one’s destiny to do, And then do it.”
(Henry Ford)
Let us be honest, that discovering our purpose in life is a gradual growth thing rather than overnight thing. I have been ardent follower of purpose discovery industry in line with being successful in life for almost a decade now, misunderstanding and understanding.
Continuing discovering my purpose misunderstanding.
Indirectly here means, that my heart always followed this self-discovery because wherever I had someone was talking about how to make it in my life, I would love and also fall in love to listen to it which wanted to know my purpose in life. I felt that deep down my heart this is the thing I really wanted to hear. I don’t know about you? I always loved how human being behaved and how we can be of great help to one another. Later I found myself reading articles written about discovering your purpose in life, I would feel wow this is where I would want to be, but because of the peer influence at that time I never made any decision about it yet.
Starting discovering my purpose understandingly.
Later I started seeing that this might be my calling and slightly allowed myself to pursue it by reading self-help books. I would buy any book as long as it would have a clue about how to discover your purpose in life.
Many whom their books and articles I red would tell me you have to maintain a positive attitude follow you heart, must have something you love about, follow your passion and you will achieve your desire in life, all things made me happy and I would always want to read and hear about it more and more.
The journey
You will find me very enthusiastic about what I was doing and I will tell people, guys if we want success let us have passion in our lives, and this was the time I had my computer business. So I will tell people this is my call in life to work in the business industry and I was called to train people to know how to use a computer.
Even I went ahead and came up with a direct vision; I call it direct in quotes in that this is how it said “by this year, I will have a university of my own”. Because I thought that was my calling, and I will pursue it diligently.
Then one day I asked a question which changed my perception to life and this question was based on purpose of my life. And you see a purpose is something which you were born to do in life within the service of human being which is adding value to your fellow beings. I looked at what I was doing and asked is this my purpose or my goal. You see you must have a purpose and then have a vision which leads to you having goals as a means of achieving your purpose in life. For example if your purpose is to help people grow, you must have goals on how you are going to affect this purpose.
You might be a speaker whereby you can have programs sharing with people on the subjects you are called according to your purpose in life and it maybe your mission is to create awareness in them you can discuss them over the radion, televion, forums, create a websites, write a book or use other means to reach people.
If you focus and build your goal you can own systems to fulfill you purpose in life. Through that some of the side effects of using those goals will lead to you creating training centres, publishing industry and as we have said if your purpose is to help people grow, you might see a need that people must be in good health for them to grow and this leads you to create a health centre to provide people with free advice and materials or at a low cost through that you are adding value to people at the same time growing yourself.
What we don’t know is that once we discover our life purpose whatever we bring to the service of human being will be new and you can’t fear that so and so is going to copy me or duplicate my means. Why fear because the way you understand goals is inline with the talents and gifts you were given for the service and it will never be found in any one. I have come to understand that people who are jealousy and have fear in their lives only occur because they have not understood their mission on life.
So they work from fear based instead of love based because they take goals to be purpose in life. Let us pursue to know our purpose and once you have the knowledge that your have unique things in you. You will create goals which are in line with your purpose. You will always want to love your human being and want to use your talents and gifts and even skills to serve them.
As you go through life, you don’t just pick up things you like doing by chance. You discover what you’re good at because you were meant to discover it, just as you were meant to figure out what your fingers do, and how your elbows work.
Your unique gifts are hardwired into your system just as surely as your lungs are given their blueprint to breathe. And it’s from these specific talents and gifts that you’re able to define and determine your definite purpose … the reason why you’re here. What’s in you? Cannot be found in another living human being. In fact, it’s quite possible that what
You bring to the table hasn’t been duplicated – ever – since time began. That’s right.
Some people have purpose of making people happy and they can achieve this by creating entertainment industries etc. the point here is to discover what you are good at and would love to do and create a business around it as a means of reaching them through the goals. So let us differentiate between having a purpose and having goals in our lives. To me goals bridges to assist us reach for our purpose in life. And goals can change but a purpose will never change.
You are always free to change goals if the means is not congruent with your purpose. Once I recognized that purpose was to motivate people to be aware of themselves, I saw that I was spending so much of my time building a training business which was only a means of achieving my purpose in life, and there I had to stop putting much of my time there an find other means of reaching purpose. When listened some of the goals I can use. I discovered that I can create a blog free of charge and still out of it I can earn an income to continue serving my purpose, which finally will read to me launching a website. I also discovered another means which was publishing articles, writing a book, giving speeches, having seminars and workshops. Wherever you discover your purpose in life, the means of serving it will never miss and since the world is evolving the means are really increasing which can be exchanged with money.
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“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what it is one’s destiny to do, And then do it.”
(Henry Ford)
Let us be honest, that discovering our purpose in life is a gradual growth thing rather than overnight thing. I have been ardent follower of purpose discovery industry in line with being successful in life for almost a decade now, misunderstanding and understanding.
Continuing discovering my purpose misunderstanding.
Indirectly here means, that my heart always followed this self-discovery because wherever I had someone was talking about how to make it in my life, I would love and also fall in love to listen to it which wanted to know my purpose in life. I felt that deep down my heart this is the thing I really wanted to hear. I don’t know about you? I always loved how human being behaved and how we can be of great help to one another. Later I found myself reading articles written about discovering your purpose in life, I would feel wow this is where I would want to be, but because of the peer influence at that time I never made any decision about it yet.
Starting discovering my purpose understandingly.
Later I started seeing that this might be my calling and slightly allowed myself to pursue it by reading self-help books. I would buy any book as long as it would have a clue about how to discover your purpose in life.
Many whom their books and articles I red would tell me you have to maintain a positive attitude follow you heart, must have something you love about, follow your passion and you will achieve your desire in life, all things made me happy and I would always want to read and hear about it more and more.
The journey
You will find me very enthusiastic about what I was doing and I will tell people, guys if we want success let us have passion in our lives, and this was the time I had my computer business. So I will tell people this is my call in life to work in the business industry and I was called to train people to know how to use a computer.
Even I went ahead and came up with a direct vision; I call it direct in quotes in that this is how it said “by this year, I will have a university of my own”. Because I thought that was my calling, and I will pursue it diligently.
Then one day I asked a question which changed my perception to life and this question was based on purpose of my life. And you see a purpose is something which you were born to do in life within the service of human being which is adding value to your fellow beings. I looked at what I was doing and asked is this my purpose or my goal. You see you must have a purpose and then have a vision which leads to you having goals as a means of achieving your purpose in life. For example if your purpose is to help people grow, you must have goals on how you are going to affect this purpose.
You might be a speaker whereby you can have programs sharing with people on the subjects you are called according to your purpose in life and it maybe your mission is to create awareness in them you can discuss them over the radion, televion, forums, create a websites, write a book or use other means to reach people.
If you focus and build your goal you can own systems to fulfill you purpose in life. Through that some of the side effects of using those goals will lead to you creating training centres, publishing industry and as we have said if your purpose is to help people grow, you might see a need that people must be in good health for them to grow and this leads you to create a health centre to provide people with free advice and materials or at a low cost through that you are adding value to people at the same time growing yourself.
What we don’t know is that once we discover our life purpose whatever we bring to the service of human being will be new and you can’t fear that so and so is going to copy me or duplicate my means. Why fear because the way you understand goals is inline with the talents and gifts you were given for the service and it will never be found in any one. I have come to understand that people who are jealousy and have fear in their lives only occur because they have not understood their mission on life.
So they work from fear based instead of love based because they take goals to be purpose in life. Let us pursue to know our purpose and once you have the knowledge that your have unique things in you. You will create goals which are in line with your purpose. You will always want to love your human being and want to use your talents and gifts and even skills to serve them.
As you go through life, you don’t just pick up things you like doing by chance. You discover what you’re good at because you were meant to discover it, just as you were meant to figure out what your fingers do, and how your elbows work.
Your unique gifts are hardwired into your system just as surely as your lungs are given their blueprint to breathe. And it’s from these specific talents and gifts that you’re able to define and determine your definite purpose … the reason why you’re here. What’s in you? Cannot be found in another living human being. In fact, it’s quite possible that what
You bring to the table hasn’t been duplicated – ever – since time began. That’s right.
Some people have purpose of making people happy and they can achieve this by creating entertainment industries etc. the point here is to discover what you are good at and would love to do and create a business around it as a means of reaching them through the goals. So let us differentiate between having a purpose and having goals in our lives. To me goals bridges to assist us reach for our purpose in life. And goals can change but a purpose will never change.
You are always free to change goals if the means is not congruent with your purpose. Once I recognized that purpose was to motivate people to be aware of themselves, I saw that I was spending so much of my time building a training business which was only a means of achieving my purpose in life, and there I had to stop putting much of my time there an find other means of reaching purpose. When listened some of the goals I can use. I discovered that I can create a blog free of charge and still out of it I can earn an income to continue serving my purpose, which finally will read to me launching a website. I also discovered another means which was publishing articles, writing a book, giving speeches, having seminars and workshops. Wherever you discover your purpose in life, the means of serving it will never miss and since the world is evolving the means are really increasing which can be exchanged with money.
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