How to change the mode of reality you currently have and get the result you have been admiring

I woke up at 5.25am feeling tired because yesterday I did a lot of mental work, I escorted my wife to job then I went round in my usual exercising while listening to a personal development talk, I listened to the subject of beliefs and what I found out was very interesting because it touched my past mode of reality and the impact it had presently. So while listening I would see exactly why I was not getting the kind of life I had wanted all the time I had to figure out whether to continue with the same thinking or drop it.

So my new discovery seemed to be more helpful because once you think of accomplishing something just send an intention to the universe and leave it to manifest by itself because if you start thinking the process instead of the end results you will be discouraged and maybe abandon pursuing it altogether, so what is best thing one should do in order to avoid this kind of outcome, the most direct way is to send the signal and remain calm doing our daily tasks which are congruent with the goals you have set in place.

Personal example is that I developed an habit which nearly was not taking me anywhere, in my first business of computer training, I had developed a habit of giving my client any answer even the one I didn’t know at but I will pretend I knew it, why deep down my heart I had fear of not getting business because I thought if I said I don’t know maybe the customer would not give me a business, am not saying is bad in general but for me it was not congruent with my values.
I had to figure out whether this was me who was doing it, then make the most effective decision in myself and to the best of my personal growth I had to drop the habit I had developed and pick the one I felt was leading me to greater personal growth, I knew it would be costly and take a longtime but it was the best I would see that would be beneficial to me, so slowly I started giving a direct answer to the question asked for example if a customer wanted me to admit his or her with low grade, I had multiple solutions to this question of the client, can you admit me?
• I would say yes directly
• I would say no and immediately state the reason behind it
• I would hold the application fee and maybe try to think whether to admit the person

And mostly before I would pick the last solution which was to take the admission fee and start telling him come tomorrow, next week until I would finally not able to admit him or her because the grade were too low and are not to the standard set by the county ministry of education and if you would hold many promises to a large number of people many of us knows that a promise is debt and the other party would start to demand quickly for the solution and at the end of the day you don’t come to terms.

I don’t know whether many of the readers you are experiencing the same circumstances but today I don’t retaliate giving you an answer if I don’t know I tell you there and then and if it is something which I need to search and bring you an answer I don’t promise you it will be possible but you have to prepare for either yes or no, how you would take it is up to you but my heart must remain clean for personal growth