Sex is an art then an act
AN ARTCILE BY WIFE CHRISTINE
Remember the first time you saw the man or woman you thought you loved, then the person proposed to you maybe as a lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, whichever way, you must have felt your heart skip a bit.
Remember the first time you kissed or you looked at each other in a loving way, as in can we have each other, the romance and then SEX. It didn’t just happen believe me it is NEVER a surprise; you conceive it in your thoughts and only fulfill it as an act. Therefore couples lets be realistic about the whole sex issue. It is not just an act as you watch it in pornographic movies or even other romantic movies, It’s actually a thought made to action.
You see realistically speaking, many couples get to a point where they can not even stand one another in bed, and this may lead to separation and even divorce in married couples. But then lets look at it from another view, you loved your partner didn’t you; you even imagined how he/she would feel like in bed didn’t you, then what exactly happened few weeks or months down the line when you start eyeing or imagining the guy next door eyeing his muscles and imagining how big he could be and how you will scream if he ever took you to bed. Yet at that same time your partner is busy caressing you wanting you soo badly. Hey YOU! Stop there and think, sex is an Art not an ACT, if it is an act to you as a woman it is so painful and even boring you wish the guy on top would be through so that you can do other things. Other women prefer masturbating at this point in time because you can have a variety of men I your mind as you are doing it.
Sex is meant to bring ecstasy to both partners at all times. It should never be a burden Girls. Listen, to enjoy sex you have to stop multi-tasking at that point in time and enjoy just that. Don’t wait for your partner to put you in the mood it all starts with you, if you wait for your partner then at times they just cant get you in that right mood. You know what is in your mind at all times and it is only you who can control your mind. Take a few minutes or even hours maybe as you are driving home or shopping put yourself in the sex mood not thinking of someone else, but think of your partner and how he/she brings so much pleasure to you. It works miracles because as you think of them you even feel them and will want them there and then, you cant wait to hold them in you arms. Send sex and love messages to your partner throughout the day, that’s another way of putting you in the mood or even call your partner and don’t talk of the kids or work don’t even nag, just say something sexual and let that be the nature of conversation until you cut the phone. Believe me you, your sex life with your partner will be much better and you will not imagine anyone else having this kind of joy.
DONTS
Do not discuss your marital problems with friends and relatives unless it’s a professional marriage counselor
D not fight when going to bed. Keep your fights out of the bedroom look for another private room to fight let your bedroom be a LOVE room
posted by HESBON at
12:58 AM
AN ARTCILE BY WIFE CHRISTINE
Remember the first time you saw the man or woman you thought you loved, then the person proposed to you maybe as a lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, whichever way, you must have felt your heart skip a bit.
Remember the first time you kissed or you looked at each other in a loving way, as in can we have each other, the romance and then SEX. It didn’t just happen believe me it is NEVER a surprise; you conceive it in your thoughts and only fulfill it as an act. Therefore couples lets be realistic about the whole sex issue. It is not just an act as you watch it in pornographic movies or even other romantic movies, It’s actually a thought made to action.
You see realistically speaking, many couples get to a point where they can not even stand one another in bed, and this may lead to separation and even divorce in married couples. But then lets look at it from another view, you loved your partner didn’t you; you even imagined how he/she would feel like in bed didn’t you, then what exactly happened few weeks or months down the line when you start eyeing or imagining the guy next door eyeing his muscles and imagining how big he could be and how you will scream if he ever took you to bed. Yet at that same time your partner is busy caressing you wanting you soo badly. Hey YOU! Stop there and think, sex is an Art not an ACT, if it is an act to you as a woman it is so painful and even boring you wish the guy on top would be through so that you can do other things. Other women prefer masturbating at this point in time because you can have a variety of men I your mind as you are doing it.
Sex is meant to bring ecstasy to both partners at all times. It should never be a burden Girls. Listen, to enjoy sex you have to stop multi-tasking at that point in time and enjoy just that. Don’t wait for your partner to put you in the mood it all starts with you, if you wait for your partner then at times they just cant get you in that right mood. You know what is in your mind at all times and it is only you who can control your mind. Take a few minutes or even hours maybe as you are driving home or shopping put yourself in the sex mood not thinking of someone else, but think of your partner and how he/she brings so much pleasure to you. It works miracles because as you think of them you even feel them and will want them there and then, you cant wait to hold them in you arms. Send sex and love messages to your partner throughout the day, that’s another way of putting you in the mood or even call your partner and don’t talk of the kids or work don’t even nag, just say something sexual and let that be the nature of conversation until you cut the phone. Believe me you, your sex life with your partner will be much better and you will not imagine anyone else having this kind of joy.
DONTS
Do not discuss your marital problems with friends and relatives unless it’s a professional marriage counselor
D not fight when going to bed. Keep your fights out of the bedroom look for another private room to fight let your bedroom be a LOVE room
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