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You need a reason greater than reality for you to succeed

2008-10-02T21:51:00.000-07:00

I believe that each of us has a financial genius. The problem is that our financial potential lies asleep,waiting to be awakened, it lies a total sleep because our beliefs have thought us into believing that the love of money is the root of all evil. we have been encouraged to go to school and get a degree then look for a job but it has failed to teach us on how we can make use of money we are getting to change the world we are living in rather than chasing after the money we can easily allow money chase us.
we have been taught that not to worry of anything as long as you have security as a job, the company you are working with will take care of you because they will give you pension when you retire. you will always find that we don't care about the money we earn,we just spend it as fast as we get it,then we go out to borrow so that when we get a salary we can repay back.
we are only limiting ourselves because we do not understand the reason why we exist. since your reality doesn't define how life can be you can only exist as per see. The surrounding has shaped you to be what you are today,so you cant imagine doing something different from what the society and those who surrounds you are doing. this happened to me, when i shared with my friends,relatives of me switching my career to personal development .since many would not be able to comprehend they just dismissed the idea totally and gave me the reason why i would not make it. even me i joined their reasoning and i saw the point because they were arguing that ,we come from a third world country,people have not understood the concept,The technology has not advanced like the USA,UK ad those developed countries and many other excuses. when i tried to analyze the points in fact they could make sense and that time i just dismissed that idea and continued doing something i didn't love at all.
The moment i gave room the mind transcended limitation, the way life unfolded even me right now i cant fathom. i found out things to be so easy in that within 6 months i was making a presence as an expert in the world rather than in the locality. opportunities started showing themselves. i started connecting with friends who were vibrating at a higher frequency. i discovered things which i never knew before and am on my way. the point i want to say is that you need a reason greater than reality in order to break away from the comfort zone.
remember for us to come out of the comfort zone we need the power of choice. that is the main reason why many people want to live in a free country. if you come to my country Kenya,every year many people are migrating to the USA because they believe that it is a free state where jobs are found easily ,democracy has matured and many other opportunities without realising that once you get there because of the change of physical environment your reality also changes and you easily fit to the system ,then they start telling friends,relatives back at home of the opportunities in USA. and they say we want the power to choose.
we make a choice daily about what we do with our time,our money and even what we put into our heads. that is the power of choice. All of us have choice. i would say that one of the hardest thing about personal growth is to be true about yourself and be willing to go not along with the crowd. The earlier you can learn to develop yourself and be what you were meant to be the better of you.
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The personal growth is a process

2008-10-01T20:31:00.000-07:00

Golfers have a say which says that" it is not how you drive, it is how you arrive". the process between the tee and the green is what matters. personal development is about correcting habits and mistakes while trying to avoid their repetition. Nothing,however exceeds the fact that we are,first human beings. fundamentally, being human is what we are designed for. it is our generic self,much like a car we drive away when we pay only the base price.
God created within us the talents and gifts to succeed and the ability also to fail. we normally do plenty of both. this is the place in which we form our character,humility,integrity of mind and spirit and we also experience both joy and grief. developing as a person is not a guarantee of success or achievement nor can we avoid humiliation or sadness,all these is needed to gain experience and grow as a person. personal is process and takes time for one to reach a certain state but we must be persistent.start from now and count sometime,then you will see a lot of changes in your life.
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How to attract more money into your life

2008-09-30T23:41:00.000-07:00

once Jesus said in Mathew 7:7-8 that ask and it will be given to you,seek and you will find,knock and the door shall be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, he who seeks finds and to him who knocks the door will be opened.

This is an amazing truth to me because it goes hand in hand with the law of attraction which says that you attract into you life what you dominantly think about. if you think about poverty it means it is the dominant thoughts you will see synchronicity of poverty coming into you life and the experience of poverty will b applicable to you,since the one who asks will receives.
so what i do? how do you become a good receiver?, first,begin by nurturing yourself. people are creatures of habits and therefore you will have to consciously practise receiving the best life has to offer. you must always practise going crazy with excitement wherever you get even a penny, how unfortunate it is when you are broke and don't have you will always think big in therms of money and wherever you will get even a dollar lying in the ground you cant pick it and bless it. not knowing that by accepting that dollar you are sending a signal that you re ready to receive more in your life.
The moment you stop judging the denomination. Money will find it is way and you will start receiving more in your money. being open and wiling to receive anything and everything that comes your way the God will always send more into your life. If you don't appreciate that dollar it means you are a poor receiver. You have to first expand your receiving inner being before you start filling it physically.
The way you are in one area is usually the way you are in all areas. If you have been blocking yourself from receiving money,chances are you have been blocking everything else in your life. The mind doesn't usually delineate specifically where you are a poor receiver. in fact it is just he opposite, the mind has a habit of overgeneralizing and says" the way it is,it is the way it is , everywhere and always.
if you are a poor receiver,you are a poor receiver in all areas. And if you become an excellent receiver, you will be an excellent receiver in all areas. whatever you get now start saying "thank you". and life Will start changing. i will happy to be sharing with you in prayers and if you want to partner with me donate below.

You are of great value than you thought.

2008-09-29T22:03:00.000-07:00

The pursuit of my personal growth, the field i passionately adore, i have come to realize why there is no any other person like,like you or anybody else. all of us are wonderfuly and fearfully made. The uniqueness of each personality brings a great diversity in loving relationships. i normally tell my wife that you so good to me and i delight being with you,the same with my son every morning before he leaves to go to school i just look at him and say i have never seen anyone like you and i dont think i will ever see again. you were created to fulfill a purpose and no one else can do it except you. go out and fulfill it.

I can imagine the joy that God had when he created you and me and said we populate the earth. furthermore He made us multidimensional much like Himself, great joy, high inteliigence,the power to think,to imagine,to creatively experiment infact to go in any direction our mind could devise.

The gift God values most would be ours that is total freedom of choice, what excitement do we have of completeness. Each one of us can exult in the ability to direct himself or herself to be equal to any challenge. we can run with speed and power,to move gracefully and with discipline and also to sit quietly in contemplation of the surrounding.

In the light to which God surrounded us with we can perceive the truth and recognize the great plans to which God had for us. you and me we can continue discovering it and we attain anything we ever thought of but we must recognize that we are wonderful and start to grow and develop and then we shall wonder at the possibilities for intellictual understanding and pursuits that is open for us.

let no one despise you,dont lower yourself, listen to your intuition and follow, you are the only obstacle to achieveing great things in life. this is my personal mission on earth. to pursue personal development and discover great and unsearchable things that am capable of doing but have not realized. am encouraging you too to pursue if you are willing. print this article and share with your relatives,friends and whomever you are in contact. because we want to have a better experience and serve one anothe to the highest good of all. what do you think. am dedicating myself to discovering profound truths and if you are willing you can partner with me in prayers or send a donation. the pay pal payment sign is below here.

success is a learnable skill and you can learn to succeed at anything

2008-09-28T22:07:00.000-07:00

author and speaker Jim Rohn says that " if you keep doing what you have always done, you will keep getting what you have always got." and the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. look,if what you have been doing were working you will be happy now.
physicists tell us that nothing in this world is static,everything alive is constantly changing. and if you are not growing then you are dying. the only way to master something is keep on doing it. if you notice my passion is to keep on developing and help others to develop too and that is why everyday i feel that i must post an article for me to read and share with others also.read in
your success
i understand that success is a learn able skill. i can learn to succeed at anything. if i want to be a great pianist i can,if i want to be a great golfer,i can learn on how to do it. and if you want to be happy,you can learn how to do it. even if you want to be rich ,you can learn how to do it. it doesn't matter where you are right now. it doesn't matter who are right now. it doesn't matter where you are starting from, right now. what matters is that you are willing to learn.
remember that every master was insignificant one time. No one comes out of the womb a great golfer,a great financial guru, a great pianist, a great economist. every person learned how to succeed. for example Bill gates learned how to create a great company in the world(Microsoft), Warren Buffet learned how to be a great investor, Tiger woods learned how to be a great golfer and so on.read in
The true meaning of wealth
the fastest way to master a skill is to work on yourself into a "successful" person. again your outer world is a reflection of the inner world. you are the root and your results are the fruits. also remember that the goal of mastering is skill is not to be admired or have a lot money but is to grow and become the best person you can possibly be. the world renowned singer Madonna was asked why she kept on changing her persona,her music and her style every year. she responded that her music was her way to express her "self" and that reinventing herself each year forces her to grow into the kind of person she wants to be.
therefore success is not "what" it is all about "who". the goodness is that the "who" is trainable and learn able. i welcome you the personal growth,because it is the only way we can express who we are and be able to unleash the powers within us and share the talents an gift we have with the rest of the people. if you have been touched leave a donation below,any amount is welcomed, it is one way of keeping connecting and having the feeling good of serving. donate now.

The true meaning of wealth

2008-09-28T21:03:00.000-07:00

yesterday i wrote an article about the true meaning of success,many people wrote to me telling me how the articles touched them and some people asked if i can write again maybe talk about the true measure of wealth. some one wrote an interesting email and asked me how much do you make?, then i thought why couldn't he ask me " what is your net worth?". i know very few people will ask such kind of a question.

Then,as seen from above what is the true measure of wealth, is it the income pay you get every week/month/year or is it the net worth of the financial value of everything you own. what do you think?. people who value pay check will measure wealth in terms of the much they can earn and therefore will admire someone who is pay check reads $30million a month and to satisfy the ego they choose immediate gratification, you have a car,you make more money and you get a better car. you have a house,you make more money and you get a bigger house. you have clothes,you make more money and you get nicer clothes. you have holidays,you make more money and you spend more on holidays. of course there are exceptions to this rule....very few. in general as income goes up,expenses almost invariably goes up and that is why income alone will not make you wealth.

But once you understand that your net worth is the ultimate measure of wealth whereby you can easily turn your assets into cash i.e the bonds,real estate,the current value of your business,the value of the residence you are staying on if own it and then subtract everything you owe.
how to build the net worth

building a net worth is a situation whereby you take a blank sheet of paper and title it "Net worth". then you start by creating a simple chart that begins with Zero and ends with whatever your net worth objective will be. remember that your current net worth is as it is today. then update it quarterly. like now when i learn about this, i started with nothing and doubling every quarter meaning i divided the net worth into four areas: my regular income,savings,investments and simplifications.

working income is the money i earned from active work. and in this case my wife was the one who is working and therefore we count the money there and also i had passive income from our current training business which gives us a profit at the end of the month. let us not forget that working income is very important because it can address the other three areas for example the more income you earn the more you can be able to save and invest. unfortunately many people put their focus on the working income out of the four other areas mentioned above. consequently they end up with a low net worth or none.
many of us earn but don't keep any of it. without creating income to fill the funnel and savings to keep it there it is impossible to make an investment. but once you begin a decent savings from your income,then you can make your money grow through investment. and the better you are at investing the faster you can make your money grow and generate a better net worth this will make you realise how important your net worth is and therefore decrease your living expenses as you increase your savings and make more investments. this is what we call simplification. this is why you read of rich people driving old cars,some living in apartments and so on .
by tracking your net worth,you are focusing on it,and because what you focus on expands,your net worth will expand" where attention goes,energy flows".

The true meaning of success

2008-09-28T07:10:00.000-07:00

what is the meaning of success to you, in a scale of 1 to 10, how can you rate yourself in terms of success as per see. some people will find having more money in the bank account is being rich and other assets which are tangible while other will find having the inner things like peace,harmony,integrity,security and happiness being rich. what about you. in my opinion the true meaning of success is to be successful at the enterprise of living.
how do we find this success
step 1. the first step is to find what you love to do,then do it. unless you love your work,you cannot possibly consider yourself successful at it,even if all the rest of the world hails you as a great success. to love your work means having the deep desire to carry it out.
step 2. is to specialize in some particular branch of work and strive to excel in it.for example if one chooses medicine meaning he will want to be a doctor,he should give attention to his chosen speciality. his enthusiasm should make him want to know all there is available about his chosen field. this is what prompted me to chose this field of personal development because all along i have been wanting to develop as person and also help others develop too. it is an are to be that i always think about all the time,talk about it,in fact am into it that there is no any other field i can feel comfortable working and now what about you. read also adding value to others
step 3. you must be sure the thing you want to do does not contribute only to your success. it must benefit humanity. in other words your idea must go forth with the purpose of blessing or serving the world. and if you work only to benefit yourself you are in the wrong field. think about it today and if you find it don't forget to send me a donation through pay pal. the sign is below here

The happiest person is the one who constantly brings forth and practises what is best in himself or herself.

2008-09-27T22:31:00.002-07:00

are fear or worry holding you back? let is remember that fear s just a thought in the mind. why do i let it to put me down, many of the times i only imagine the situation before it even happens. for example are you having a relationship but feel that you partner might be cheating you or are you married and feel that your spouse is being unfaithful to you. i want to tell you today that you are 100% correct and nobody should condemn you,why do i support you many people will start dismissing me now but come on let us continue. in fact by you dismissing me you are also right and am also right. so what is the issue now. the issue is that can the answer i have be helpful to me and to those people around me. am i having peace and happiness and if not then what am thinking is not correct when it is observed from outside and this is the one blocking me from achieving happiness in my life.
the happiest person is the one who constantly brings forth and practises what is best in himself or herself. happiness and virtue compliment each other. not only are the best the happiest, but the happiest are usually the best in the art of living life successfully. for example i know of a lady who shared with me on how she taught her man was cheating her and constantly she taught about it. this came about after she listened to a conversation in the office from the fellow workmates who taught that men cheat and they also confirmed that they had evidence,so she also started following up the man to see whether he was cheating her, and you know she attracted everything by having only a thought and you know what, when we shared i told her that she should face the man and get the honest answer before she would think about anything. afterwards she came and shared and told me that there was nothing everything was only fear in the mind.
there is one important thing to remember about being happy. we must sincerely desire to be happy. there are people who have been depressed,dejected, and unhappy so long that they suddenly made happy by some wonderful good,joyous news. many people choose unhappiness without realizing that they are doing so. they do so by entertaining such ideas as these:
today is a black day,everything is going to go wrong
i am not going to succeed
everyone is against me
i m always late
i never get the breaks
he can, but i cant
if you have this attitude of mind the first thing in the morning,you will attract these experiences to you and you will be very unhappy. begin to realize that the world you live in is determined by what goes on in your mind. the thou hgt you habitually entertain in your mind have a tendency to actualize themselves in physical conditions. Ralpho Waldo Emerson said " a man is what he thinks all the day long" remember you experience nothing outside your own mentality.

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what is the cause of breakups in relationship? is it the money itself or the belief about money.

2008-09-25T19:01:00.000-07:00

Are you in a marriage where your spouse is not ready to discuss with you openly about money? do you fight regularly because of money? or are you intending to breakup because of money? you are not alone. it is happening everywhere. allow me to discuss with you what saved my marriage and how come i discovered it.The biggest reason behind the fights people have about money.
it doesn't matter how much money you have or don't have. the bottom line is that, there is a root which is very fundamental about money. each of you grew differently and have different fundamental belief towards money which you sacredly inherited from you parents or those people who brought you up . and this will have a great impact on both of you,because you will like your spouse to adopt your beliefs too and also would like you to to adopt his or her beliefs towards money. this goes to married people,dating couples,family relationship and even business associates. this key here is to recognize that you are dealing with inherited beliefs about money.
rather than feeling bad why this are not working the way you wanted them. you can start by recognizing that your partner's belief about money is not the same as yours. instead of getting upset,choose understanding. do your best to find out what is important to your partner in the area of money an identify his or her motivations and fears. doing this way you will be dealing with the the root instead of the fruits and are on you way working towards having a smooth relationship
steps towards changing. personal experience
This is what i did after i found out that what i was dealing was not the cause towards money . i openly asked my wife if we can discuss the history of each other, of what we heard about money when we were you, what was the reactions towards money in each other's family and what it really means right now now to each other.
from there we created a list of these attitudes with regard to money and success. then we appreciated each other how we grew up and agreed that the modeling had many flaws which is making our relationship crumpling down. we now agreed as partners to create a new list of attitudes and the actions we shall both live by. we wrote it down,we didn't type but used our own handwriting and posted in our bedroom to read every morning and evening and wherever we drift away from them we would remind each other of our commitments and i have seen it working well. now we saved our marriage.am not saying this what you need to do, but if you see it can work practise it,there are several ways in which you can go about to change your fundamental beliefs and even some your taught by your religion. what we are discussing here is not what is ideal,but what can work for both of you and empower you to live in harmony with each other rather than putting yourselves down,you are there for one another. what do you think?

we live in a world of cause and effect,the tree lesson.

2008-09-25T11:12:00.001-07:00

many people grow trees and many of us have come across a tress but have we ever asked ourselves how it came to be a tree. is there lesson we can draw from as it represent the tree of life. on this tree there are fruits. in life we call them the results. whenever we evaluate ourselves based on the fruits we don't like them, maybe they are too small or don't taste well and some even are eaten by worms.
you will find many of us seated under the tree looking at the fruits(results) and feeling dissatisfied,hating yourself. but what caused them to be what they are now is the roots that creates those fruits(results)
it is what is under the ground that creates what is above the ground. it is what is invisible that creates what is visible. and therefore what you Carnot see in the world is more important than what you see. what most people don't realize is that the physical realm is merely a printout of the not seen.
what is going on here is that the real problem cannot be changed in the printout that is the physical world and can only be changed in the program the mental,and the spiritual world. money is a result,wealth is a result,health is a result,illness is a result.
it's not enough to be in the right place at the right time. you have to be the right person in the right place at the right. so who you are? how you think. what are your beliefs? what are your habits and traits? how do you really feel about yourself? how confident are you in yourself? how well do you relate to others? how much do you trust others?. the fact is that your character,your thinking and your beliefs are a critical part of what determines the level of your success.

The majority of people simply do not have the internal capacity to create and hold on t large amounts of money and the increased challenges that go with more money and success. the reality is that most people do not reach their full potential. most people are not successful. many of them are unconscious. they are a little sleep at the wheel. they work and think on a superficial level of life-based only on what they can see. they live strictly in the visible world.
. we live in a world of cause and effect.

many of us grew up with an element of punishment in us. whereby if you did something wrong you deserved to be punished

2008-09-24T20:59:00.000-07:00

no individual has sufficient experience,education,native ability and knowledge to insure the accumulation of great fortune,without accepting himself or herself first. because when you accept yourself means you have accepted total responsibility for what happened in your life in the past and what is happening currently in your life.
recognise that whether you are worthy or not is all a made-up story. again, nothing has a meaning except for meaning we give it. i don't know about you, but i have never heard anybody who went through the "stamping" lineup at birth. can you imagine God stamping each person's forehead as he or she came through? worthy.......unworthy......worthy......unworthy........" i don't think it works that because if you read psalms it says we are fearfully and wonderfully made and God has declared you worthy. there is no one who comes around and stamps you "worthy" or "unworthy". you do that. you make it up. you decide it. you and you alone determine if are accepting to be worthy. it is simply your perspective. and you will live into your story.
people are challenged with the question why are they not worthy, financially stable, having a good relationship and i can guess that over 90 percent of the people have a feelings of not being good enough.
where does this low self-esteem come from? the usual - our conditioning. for most of us comes from hearing negative comments rather than positive one. even if our parents or guardians were incredibly supportive, most of us will end up feeling of not able to measure to the standard of expectation from them.
many of us grew up with an element of punishment in us. whereby if you did wrong you deserve to be punished we were punished by our parents,teachers and those who were older than us. and even certain religion punished us by threatening us if we do wrong with not going heaven. up to now the conditioning of punishment is ingrained in us even if there is not actual punishment when we make a mistake we punish ourselves in the mind(subconsciously). and it would be inform " you are bad, so no money". this explains why some people limit their earnings and why others will subconsciously sabotage their success. are you worthy or unworthy?

poverty is the state of mind and nothing else

2008-09-23T21:49:00.000-07:00

There are millions of people who believe themselves"doomed" to poverty and failure around the world today. simply because some forces over which they believe they have control over. but without remembering that they are the creators of their own destiny. and because of their own negative belief ,which has affected their hard drive which is the subconscious mind and manifested in the physical world.
Rich people live in a world of abundance and poor people live in a world of limitations. of course both live in the same physical world, but the difference is in their perspective. the poor people come from scarcity. they live by motto's such as " there's only so much to go around, there's never enough and you cant have everything" and although you may not be able to have "everything" as in all the things in the world, i do think you can certainly have everything you really want.
Do you want a successful career or a close relationship with your family! Do you want to focus on business or have fun and play. poor people choose one but rich people have both. nothing brings man suffering and humility as poverty. only those who have experienced poverty understand the full meaning of this. poverty is the state of mind and nothing else

The more value you add to the world the more wealth and success you accumulate.

2008-09-23T10:45:00.000-07:00

Napoleon Hil in his classic book, think and grow Rich has taught us on how to use the power of our minds to become more successful. But what will happen when you only focus on success albert Eisten once said that “try not to becme a man of success ; rather try to become a man of value”. So what does that mean exactly?

It means developing a strategy for your life that is based on increasing your value. It means moving from your current life to a different life where you can provide more value better than anyoe else. One of the major secret to success and wealth is the power of value and service. Therefore the more you serve the more you succeed. The more value you add to the world the more wealth and success you accumulate.

Fore example in the idea of service. Your level of succes depends on how many people you can help either diectly or indirectly i.e if you help 500 people to become successful then you can measure your success by giving it a value of 500. and i you want to have more success, think how you can help more people.

Now instead of focusing on success,focus on specific,measurable activities that will increase your value to yourself and others. Using the intriscic value with time your value will yield great harvest.

Those precious hours just after we drift off to sleep is creative moments use it well

2008-09-22T23:28:00.000-07:00

I was once told by someone that I should end each day by crossing it off my calendar and saying out loud, "There goes another day of my life, never to return again." But why many of us love ending the day with watching news that are full of murder, war and mayhem of all kinds and we call it news and what happens is the we end the day feeling of regrets or loss, so instead of being grateful and enter to the most creative hour with a positive note we end it badly. Let us remember that there is a time when we are at our most creative, productive and powerful. A time when we have complete access to all of our resources and can solve virtually any problem. A time when the great inventors of our time talk about having had their “ ah ha” moments and where many our most pressing problems have been solved.

It is that time in our lives when we have total access to our power and can tap in the source of “all that is” for help with anything in our lives. Those precious hours just after we drift off to sleep. These are some of the most creative time we have available to us. Unfortunately ,most people prepare themselves up for entering this time by watching late hour news just before going to bed. Am not against the news but against watching news before going to bed.

This is the absolute worst thing you can do. Think about the images that you are taking with you into your dream state. It is no wonderful so many people are unhappy and depressed. Instead if you really must watch the news why cant you then record and watch them the following day. Some will say that it would have ceased to be news. Let it cease but grow.

When you substitute positive, uplifting ideas in place of negative ones you will provide the subconscious mind thoughts, words and even pictures of the kind of life you want to live. One time a gave it a trial by taping all my favorite shows and saved them for 21 days and i want to share with you that after 21 days it was very enlightening. The point again is that you don't need to continue any of the above beyond 21 days. Think of the benefits you’ll gain from those 21 days alone. You can re-asses after the trial period. You’re certain to grow just from the experience, even if it’s temporary.

The power of the above approach is its simplicity. This is because you will allow yourself to look at more important thing in your life and hence create positive images in your subconscious mind which will have a dramatic effect on your creativity and outcomes. Don't be surprised if you start waking up with new, empowering ideas that will propel you toward even greater success. I ‘d be surprised if you do not.

These images will provide your subconscious mind with a clear picture of what you want. Since your subconscious acts on whatever commands you give it, by virtue of the laws of the universe. It will begin bringing it towards you.

Imagination is more important than knowledge

2008-09-22T09:24:00.000-07:00

Have ever known that you have within you the power to create whatever amount of many you want. But why do we have very few people who are successful and other are not.

The most widely celebrated American genius, Albert Einstein, said that he felt that" imagination is more important than knowledge”. It is easy enough to read and say “sure imagination is more important than knowledge”. And go on with your day. I never saw the importance of the above phrase however when i started thinking about it started making sense to me because I didn’t want just to accept and go on with my life. Actually what does Einstein mean when he says imagination is more important than knowledge is their any deeper meaning than the mere acceptance of the words?

When i went deeper to understand what he meant is when I started actually getting the meaning . like now think for a moment IMAGINATION- is the ability to image or visualize something your desire. Now do we get the point here , having he image of something you desire. What is it that you desire in life, do you desire to have a lot of money and how much, do you desire to live a good neighbor and where and now do you have the image of the thing you want.

Many people have the knowledge that you must have good income to live happy but few who can manage to have the image of what they want and this is the reason the old gent was trying to tell s that the most important part of creation process is the engagement of the powers of visualizing or imagining what you want. It makes sense since this principle is supported in virtually all religions, spiritual and philosophical teaching handed down to us.

How can this happen. It can happen by you making it possible. If you vividly imagine that which you desire, your unconscious mind will begin to bring it to you. And nothing more. Once we have the image then you will begin to attract all the necessary components for its successful accomplishment, including now knowledge.

This can come in the form of another person you meet who just happens to possess the specialized knowledge you need. You may see adverts for a seminar or class you would attend to learn what you need to know or you may be guided to a particular books or audio program that will give you the knowledge you require.

Your work is to become clear about what you desire and devote sometime each day seeing this as having already manifested and then go about you living your life, paying attention to synchronicities.

Find a Want and Fill It and then make money

2008-09-21T19:35:00.000-07:00

Are currently at the crossroads, you dont know whether to quit your unfulfilling job or to stay on, you earn very little and cant meet your bills, want to start a business but dont know how but do you have something valuable to offer people. Let us explore ways which you can do something you will enjoy and earn a living through it.

Years ago sales people were taught that the way to become successful was to find a need
and fill it. The problem with this type of thinking is that there is a world of difference
between what people need and what they want and are willing to pay money to have.
People need all sorts of things.
They need to eat healthier and exercise more. Lots of people need driving lessons. This
does not mean that they want them or want to pay to have them. As a matter of fact, I
am going to suggest that you develop a habit of adding additional income sources on a
regular basis . We’ll talk more about that later, however, Too many people try to
launch several businesses at once and end up succeeding in none of them it is important that you have one source up and running well before you embark on an additional venture. The possible
exception to this might be if you are working in partnership with others and each
partner can be the key person for one of the ventures. The best and simplest way you can increase your income immediately and make more money now is to start a part or full time service business.
As it was explained to me by a friend and mentor years ago, as a society or geographic
locale develops and grows, it expands from providing bare necessities like electricity
and water to becoming more service oriented. Depending upon where you live, the demands and types of services will vary greatly.
Offer services which people want
You can always make money by offering a service people want.
I like service businesses for a number of reasons:
They have little or no start up cost.
They present very little risk.
They do not require buildings, employees or large investments in equipment.
Service businesses come in every shape and size.I was driving around Nairobi,Kenya some days ago and passed by a van with the words “Laundry services at your door step” painted on the outside above a mobile number. When I got home I called the number and met, the owner, who took care of drycleaning services until we had to change because his waiting list was too long.
Today, some three years later I still see him, interestingly enough, at the bank. He has a
solid business doing dry cleaning services to people’s homes

Another enterprising individual, I read about, was sitting at a suburban train station one
morning during rush hour and seeing all the commuters wearing dress clothes, set up a
station pick up and delivery service where people could drop off their dry cleaning on
their way to the train in the morning and pick it up the following evening their way
home. When I learned of it, he was setting up shop at the rest stops along the New York
State throughway, to take care of the auto commuter traffic.

In 1989, an unemployed college student, Brian Scudamore, was sitting in a McDonald's
trying to figure out how to make a living. He noticed a beat up truck over flowing with
junk. He invested his last $700 to buy a used pick-up and launched what has become 1-
800-GOT-JUNK? Today they have over 200 franchises and are growing rapidly.
Remember People will always pay for someone to provide a service they do not or can not do
themselves.
By far, the simplest, and easiest to start service business I have ever heard about was the
guy who went door-to-door, asking people if they were planning on having
improvements made to their house any time in the next six months. If they answered
“yes,” he would ask if he could send one of his recommended license contractors to
provide them with a free, no-obligation consultation and estimate.
He then took these very hot leads to his network of contractors and received a finder’s
fee if the job went through. This was brilliant.
If you consider the cost of home improvements, like a new roof, siding, driveways,
swimming pools, decks, etc., and realize that he could have easily asked for and
received at least 10% of the order, this is a very profitable business for just walking
around in the fresh air and talking to people in nice neighborhoods. The basic start up
requirements for a business like this, aside from the license and legal paperwork would
be business cards and a clean shirt and there you are.
Be creative. Ask around.
Think about the types of services you would like, but can not find in your local. When
you travel, see what’s being done in other places that you might do in your own area.
Whenever I travel, I make a point of observing what local businesses are doing. I usually
talk to one or two business people in the town or city I’m visiting. This gives me a totally
new perspective on things and opens my thinking to new possibilities.
Get rid of the idea that you can not make more money.
Yes, you can!

When you deny your problems, you turn away from truth

2008-09-21T10:37:00.000-07:00

Life has no other discipline to impose,if we would butrealize it, than to accept life unequestioningly. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from,everything we deny,denigrate or despise,serves to defeat us in the end. What seeems nasty, painful ,eveil,can become a source of beauty,joy and strenght, if faced wth an open mind. Every moment is a golden one for him who has th vision to recognize it at such.- henry miller

Yes, we all struggle,day in day out. However,some people simply manage the challenges better than others and are thereby able to expend their energies on winning rather than merely enduring the undetected. Scud missiles that come out of nowhere,that is threating their well plans. Although all of us face these trials, it seems that some people have advantage over others.

We may not see the sweet harvest coming after the bitter planting. The only certain about life is that it will change if we keep on. So many of life’s hardship derive their power from the unexpected timing of the punch that catches us off guard. For you to create a life of your choosing. It is not for me to say what that life should look like, but i’ll do my best to help you figure it out.

No matter how faith-filled ,how financialy responsible, how politically correct you are,or how congenial you may be with others,you will find yourself from time to time facing times that threatens and leaves us with alot of problems and that is when you must ask yourself whether you accept the problem or deny it.

When you deny your problems, you turn away from truth. The lies you tell yourself spawn more lies,infecting your mind with falsehood that weave themselves into your identity. You become disconected from your true self, living as a mere shadow of the being you were meant to be.

Can you enjoy your work and make money too?

2008-09-20T22:58:00.000-07:00

Not all of us have money to set up a business or the luck, or the chances aren't there. Sometimes, you are glad to have a job-any job. So you grab the job in the factory or the store. You might not love the job but you comfort yourself that anyway a job is a job and you can make things work best for you.

But the question is do you need to get stuck in a rut? Is your current job the only option? At least if you look beyond yourself. There are many options. Just look around what else you can do and start doing it.

You might ask, how do i know that what i enjoy doing will lead to money? The best answer will be to give it a trial and judge it yourself. I don't want to give myself as an example because you have never met me and nor heard me but look around you there are lots of examples of individual whom worked on the work they enjoy and got the really money they wanted.

I’ve met quite a number of people who are enjoying what they are doing ,but have never heard any of them say that doing what they love is a burden to them. We spend so much of our lives working to make a living that doing something we loathe seems pointless. I believe in balance, what Buddhists call harmony. On the whole i have been very lucky maintaining this balance. That is enjoy your work and make money too.

If you still have to work for a boss at a job you don't like, as most almost everyone does at some point in life. Just have a positive outlook on life and just get on with it. Enjoy the people, you come into contact with though your job and if you are still unhappy, make it instead our goal to divide your private life from work life. Have fun in your own time, consider that your boss or your company is paying for your fun and you will feel happier and enjoy your life and your job more. Mhhhhhh what is your opinion

WHY I ADMIRE CAPITALISTS

2008-09-20T10:22:00.000-07:00

Why would I spend my time learning all the secret about what kennedys, Rockellers, Ross perots and the rest who create jobs, make other people rich and make things happen. The reason is that they always do well despite of the economics times, while the rest we are crying that the economy is bad them are getting rich and even are happy because it is an opportunity for them to invest.

I wanted to see how I can relate the capitalist to the personal development. Why would you be interested with raising your awareness and develop the consciousness while the capitalist is very much in the control over the physical environment in the personal growth is more in non-physical environment because a capitalist is main purpose is to make more money by synergistically orchestrating other people’s money, other people’s talents and other people’s time. The personal growth's developing his consciousness so that it will enable him to progressively master over his mind and be able to maintain a positive emotional state regardless of circumstances ,making intelligent and deliberate decisions and building an accurate and effective model of reality.

Capitalist know how to manage risk and make money without money. They can do this because they know that money is not a thing but merely an idea created in their head. The conscious people as well would want money in their lives but it is a means to an end and they own their minds. They make sure their thinking is clear and focused, and they select and direct their thoughts deliberately and retain control over their emotions and don't succumb to distractions, when you talk to such kind of people you can know how depth and clarity they are. These people live proactively and are emotionally resilient, rising above their circumstances instead of being victimized.

The capitalist know that money is their game and it is a game of life. They love the game of money more than any other game....more than gardening. This is the game that gives them life. Whether they are winning or losing money, you can always hear them say” i really love this game and i will never surrender”. And this will be the game of personal development is to develop their consciousness whether they are loosing or winning they will always pursue it because they know the benefit in that they would have mental clarity, enhanced problem solving and both groups are generous in that capitalist will ready to donate what they have to the good of other and the conscious people will always want to raise others consciousness. Am hoping to see myself coining by being conscious capitalist what you think

Is the love of money the root of all evil?

2008-09-18T23:25:00.001-07:00

How are you earning money currently? Are you giving your best value to get the money or you are competing to get it. As i was growing up i was conditioned to believe that having alot of money was eveil and by the time i started earning my dollar i was already heaped with limiting beliefs that the puruit of money was wrong. And to me at that time it seemed a negative thing even though i needed o meet my basic needs.

Now the question is ? is money the root of evil? Is the love of money the root of all evil? Or will money simply take root in the your thoughts?

What is it then,can we say making money quickly implies you are greed and selfish or you are just acquiring so that you can assist the rest. Does it mean making money will make another person lose or there is away in which you can make money withut hurting someone.

The point here is that we are reading from different scripts. The scarcity mentaliy and abundance mentality which all these are the state of mind. Now who is evil is it the one who has or who doesnt. This is a question all of us will ask. How rational is your financial behaviour right now. Would you describe it as fulfilling or a struggle. Have you ever questioned your beliefs about money.
Napoleon Hill in his think and grow rich book describe poverty as the state of mind and nothing else. But it is sufficient to destroy one’s chances of achievement in any undertaking. In any undertaking from above we will even mean not even appreciating what money can to him. What will be the solution?....................................

Be the bank and not the banker in personal growth

2008-09-18T23:25:00.000-07:00

When it comes to money, many people will say that the rich create money and often play the role of a banker and then deep down we will find there is a difference between being rich and being wealth. Being wealth means the number of days you can survive without physically working and still maintain your standard of living.
Ultimately being wealth does not mean the much money you can make, but how much money you keep and how long that money works for you. Many people think when they are rich for earning a lot of money that is it. And yet you will find all their money go to their expenses and that is the relationship they can create because they are a banker rather than being the bank.
Why am I relating the above to the personal growth, for you to choose to be a bank rather being the bank is because major the banker is an employee of the bank and he only interested with the pay checks rather than what is happening around the bank as a whole not a section of where he is working i.e. a cashier is to receive/give money. And many instances many people think that when you work for the bank you will never go broke and you always have money because you are accessible to it but it is irony that many of the bankers are the most broke people you will find( I mean some).
In the personal growth there is like hood that some people are playing the role of the banker rather than the bank because they are always with money but they are also always broke. Many people cry that the world is unfair, am unlucky, am not privileged and so on and yet they walk with the bank which is the mind and are accessible to it any time. But with the right channel because it doesn't mean when you work for the bank you will take the money as you want you will be in jail in the next minute don't try but you can use the right procedure and get the much money you want. Because many banks provide many privileges to its employees which others are not.
Why don't we become a bank ourselves in the personal industry. Probably the main reason though is that the mind is not trained to play the role of the bank and this one you must pay a due. They get drawn in by the lure of earning income but they don't have the skills to deliver on the services side. Getting an income is a nice thing but this shouldn't be the primary motivation. What will you do if you have all the money ? wait for death? Income is a means to an end, but what is the end you are after. Being a bank means there is a flow cash meaning money going out and money coming in but a banker is only interested with the cash coming in but even though they give a service.
To be wealthy, a bank and the rest we must learn on how to build momentum and pay the price and develop your skills. I know it is hard to be patient, but your earlier skill building work can pay off massively down the road not just for yourself but for all the people you will eventually help.
Every field has a core set of basic structure to follow. And if you commit to master of those structure over a period of years you will probably do very well in the growth. And if you try to shortcut and say is better to be the banker rather than the bank because a bank takes to time to grow then get used to disappointment. Just understand that at the long end the benefit are great. Work on your growth passionately and enjoy along the way.
When you start something it is like planting a seed. You may have to water it for a while before you see any results. But eventually you get a nice harvest that makes it all worthwhile since energy flows where attention goes.
Many people think it is a long time to be what you want to be. You might think twenty years is a long time but it doesn't matter. That time is going to pass no matter what you do. It is inevitable that you will find yourself there someday. When that day arrives you will either have grown personally or you wont. It is up to you to decide which path you will take. And if you don't consciously commit to the path of growing you settle for stagnation by default. Please don't allow that for yourself. Choose today and start now

Why do many people invest in real estate?

2008-09-16T01:07:00.000-07:00

Many people in the world today are running towards investing in the business of real estate even those without a skill and they are all over places,talk of New york,London,Australia,Canada,Dubai,China,etc. Ask a person why are you investing in this business of real estate, then he will tell that this is the business with big cash flow,amortization,leverage,depreciation,where you use your creaticity, predictability and all those terms used in the real estate but to me even though i have not started investing in the real estate i see as a direction to go in the future not because of the above reasons but because real estate is slow business as personal development.
Since i started raising my awareness to personal growth i realised that developing your consciusness is not an overnight thing but a gradual process which takes time to reach the state that you wanted in life,rather than the quick fix easy growth have heard and being promoted over the web that you can use one method and it brings alot of changes in life within days,but are those changes long lasting let us be realistic. We are creatures of habits and for one to adopt into a change you need to spend time into somehing and practise it over and over again for you to realise the good results.
Warren buffet an example
Warren Buffet is famous for talking about the intrinsic value of a stock. While many people parrot or try to mimmic Mr. Warren is words rarely do they understand what he means by saying intrinsic value. Once you understand intrinsic value,you may better understand why some investors make much money than others. You can also realize that you can fnd intrinsic value even in personal development,real estate other than the stock which is an area for warren buffet.
Intrinsic value in personal growth
Let me explain intrinsci value using personal growth as an example since it is my area too and it is a field which anyone is involved even those who are in the stock,real estate and etc. Many investors are addicted to watching the market go up or down. Their days gets off to a good start if the price goes down. That is not what warren Buffet does. While the price of an asset is important it is not something he watch on a daily basis as many investors do. Warren pays close attention to price when he buys a business. After that,he really is not concerned if the share price is going up or down. Nor does he care if the stock market is opened or closed. He does not play the stock market as most investors do.
First of all,warren buffet does not just own stocks. He owns business. Secondly what in really essence warren buffet looks at a business is a well managed business that grow more valuable overtime which means appreciating with time.
Back to personal growth perspective
As many self-proclaimed gurus promises you overnight growth in the personal development,can we have warre buffet in the personal development industry who understands intrinsic value that personal growth is a compounding value which in other words accelerate in value with time. When you invest time to develope your consciuoness you will not be concerned of the ups and down and why you are not getting the real results and get disappointed and maybe curse yourself but once you become more conscious of the benefits of the personal growth that is the price of it. The rest shall come to pass.

What does it mean to become more conscious? We can define it as the progressive realization of conscious mastery over the our mind. Whereby it includes the following.
making careful,intelligent and deliberate decisions
maintaining a positive emotional state regardles of circumstances
developing empowering beliefs while doing away with the disempowering one
guarding your thoughts,emotions and behaviours
being focused on the important matters and leaving the rest out
growing an effective mode of reality

all the above skills can be learn compounding with time and over the course of one’s life will prove significant than anything learned anywhere. The benefits can be outlined below which comes with an intrinsic value of developing our consciuos mind.
Ø Increased self awareness- this will enable you to succeed in your underaking because you understand your capabilities more accurate than before. You are able to notice your strenghts and weakness and can also help you uderstand other people as well.
Ø Problem solving- developing our consciousness will be a great tool at problem solving,especially where there’s a large set of relevant information to choose from. For example marital problems is a good example. The more conscious you are the better you can understand all the details of the problem and the more mental power you can use to solve the problem.
Ø Emotional understanding- as you develop your consciousness you are able to gain control over your emotional state. With practise you can learn to mantain a positive emotional state regardles of extenal circumstances. By feeling good and acting from within that framework, you’ll gradually relaease the sources of negativity from your life and replace them with positive ones.
Ø Better relationships-developing your consciuosness will help you begin communicating naturally and effortlessy,whether with strangers or old friends. People will seem less threatening and will want to connect with you. Human interaction will just seem to make a lot more sense. Your deeper understanding of the people will boost your confidence in social situations as well.
Ø Gain sel-discipline- many problems which seem challenging can easily be overcome with sufficient self discpline. For the disciplined mind,these problems are almost trivially easy to solve. But without sufficient self-discipline,frustration and failure is more likely outcome.
Ø Better health and keeping fit- you will develop more conscious eating,exercise and health habits. Will always be out trying what works best for you. You will know that you do have a physical body an its health will have a significant impact on your life. So accept the responsibility and take care of the body.
Ø Improved financial abundance- by keeping your thoughts focused on what you want and by conditioning financial abundance beliefs you will attract more money into your life and this will enhance your ability to create more value to people

Just decide to have an intrinsci value in your consciusness and you will have great benefits in your life.

Invest in raising your awareness and everything including money shall come to your life

2008-09-14T18:39:00.000-07:00

Many successful people have left school without receiving a college degree,others have started fortune companies without having any money at all,some having inherited wealth from their parents but have gone to multiply the wealth and make it big in a life time. So what will be the secret for you and me,that is available for everyone to access the same despite the origin,color,race,place,level of education,rich,and poor.
The secret here can never be found anywhere,any place, in the world except within and this is discovery that we have the power to change our beliefs,enjoy our relationship,have a good career in life which means spending most of our time to change our context for the beter. The development of our consciousness will make us realise that we have more than we thought and have an awareness that we have a power within that can achieve great things in life. It is the one that brings a great invention in life, a big discovery, solve the unsolvable problem to help people in the world.

People invest differently and they get different results but which one of this is the long lasting investment that can never come to pass even if everything is destroyed and can make you have a different reality to choose the best other investment in place, for example look at the following types of investment which many people invest at first:- people invest in their education which is a traditonal education whereby you spend many years in a class room studying about calculus,spherical trigonometry,chemistry,physics,french,english literature which is an essential skill for your development but rarely does it make you realise the power that you in you. Because in many occassions people develop this skill to have a better chance of earning more money and that is why when i was advised when growing up and wanted to choose a career i was told to go for proffessional courses like to be a Doctor,Lawyer,Banker because they are areas i can earn a lot of money.

Anothe form of investement is the loyalty and hardwork. Many people are advised that once they get a job they should make sure they spend all their energy toeing in the line of the employment acts, be a good employee and shall be given a higher position, shall be rewarded with a higher salary and so on. So an individual will take time investing himself to it and no time to know the power within him and finally he comes to discover that he was leaning against the wrong wall.

If you pick an area that you are passionate about,investing all your resources will not be a problem. You can actually enjoy it all the way but only com to discover that what you were passionate about was not within your power and it is because you never knew and that is why i want to say that raising our awareness will help us to expand in all areas meaning you can be an effective person. Rather than being driven by the money,position or something else we should invest being effective servicemen to one another and make a big contribution to the world and be assured that everything shall come to you like nice family,nice home,nice car and even lots of money.

The challenge is that it takes awareness to grow awareness. But you needn’t worry about this because you already have the seed. Think of it like fire. You have a flame, and you want to turn that flame into a huge blaze. How do you do it? You add fuel. The fuel is inestment, you will invest you knowledge,truth,courage,compassion,attention,reason,energy and intention and to much of that you will love and enjoy life because is lifelong development. Wish you success.

THREE KIND OF INVESTORS

2008-09-09T22:09:00.000-07:00

There are three types of invetors in the world. It can be money,time,education,love etc and they are
People who do not invest at all
People who invest but are not ready to lose
People who invest for a win-win formula

The first group of people are always negative and they see nothing but negative situations,circumstances,opportunities and they think ,they were born unlucky and they wish to do die. Helping a person like this to change his perception is hard work.

There is also a second class of people who dont want to lose anything and they want to play safe. They have saver’s mentality to everything. A small thing will prevent them not taking risk at all. They pretend to love someone with all heart but deep down in the heart they act out of fear. They keep money in the bank account hoping it will grow but dont want to put it into use. They go back to school to get another degree for a pay rise but not starting his own business. They are always too cautiosly and will always take media information as a sacred information. This kind of people if they raise their awareness can be useful people at large.

The third group of people and the last one is the group which have raised their awareness and are conscious about themselves and can lose everything. They are ready to explore and venture into new realms because they know that is the place where there is opposrtunities and are not ready to stay in their comfort zone. They are always willing to study more, want more control of themselves and invest for higher returns.

Your goals can be achieved if aligned with personal values

2008-09-08T23:34:00.001-07:00

What magnetic north is to the compass, a goal is to us? The goals will vary from one individual to another, but to explain the point let me use the following example. John might come up with an example of goals listed below:
1. make a million by 31st of 2008
2. buy a home worthy $400,000
3. start a home business
4. marry my fiancée by January(Jane)

The above is an example of the goals john came up with, the he can sit down and evaluate them from the most important to the least. He will then pour energy into realizing the goal. Values will come to help us a guide, because he will always ask himself whether they are in alignment with his personal values in life and then consult them for guidance if the goal is in conflict with the values drop it and move to the next, but a warning don’t allow the values to hinder you from achieving a goal that would have changed your life for better.
Your values are your current estimations of truth. They represent your answer to the question of how to live. Some sets of values will fail to produce the results you want .You may want to change your values when you understand and accept where they are taking you, and you realize that what you appear to value right now will not enable you to enjoy the "best" possible life for you Your "best" life is your vision of all the destinations you wish to reach - the greatest ultimate destiny you can possibly imagine for yourself. But your values are just a measure of the current direction you're headed right now. And in most cases these two things are incongruent, meaning that your current values are not aligned with the course of your best life. You can change them by listing the values and goals of your life.
Remember that your current values are your truth currently and can continue be improved along the way. We have to always align them with universal principles which we were given: love, power and sound mind by God himself.
In 1972, life magazine published a story about the amazing adventures of John Goddard. When he was fifteen year, john’s grandmother said “if only I had done that when I was young….” Determined not to make that statement at the end of his life, john wrote about 127 goals for his life. He named ten rivers he wanted to explore and seventeen mountains he wanted to climb. He set goals t become an eagle scout, a world traveler, and a pilot. Alas on his list was: ride a horse in the Rose Bowl parade, dive in a submarine, retrace the travels of Marco polo, read the Bible cover to cover and read the entire Encyclopedia Britannica. He also planned to read the entire works of Shakespeare, Plato, dickens, Socrates, Aristotle and several other classic authors. He desired to learn play the flute and violin, marry, have chicken (he had five), pursue a career in medicine and serve as a missionary for his church.
Sounds impossible? At the age of forty-seven, john Goddard had accomplished 103 of his 127 goals. The reason why many fail to overcome the initial to overcome the inertia is the absence of some specific goals aligned with personal values
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How to be money conscousness.

2008-09-07T19:47:00.000-07:00

Everyone who has sen active service in war knows that the cure to fear is to do forced repetition of acts of courage. Having a money consciouness is not something you are born with but something mastered through persitent of wil-power whereby you apply all of the rules unil their appllication becomes fixed habit in you,the wight someone can master weight lifting until he becomes a champion.
Those who have mastered the habit of persistence seem to enjoy abundance of money in their lives and bountifully rewarded. It is not something not meant for few,but is accessible to everyone who is ready to pay the dues,am not promising that is very easy. But with constant development finally one can master it and enjoy the benefits.
You can train yourself to be money conscious
Money is attracted to the one whose mind is favourable as poverty is attracted to the mind has been deliberately prepared to attract it. Therefore to have alot of money is the state of mind and nothing else and it can be developed upon definate causes as shown.
Definate of purpose: how much do want to earn at the end of the month,year, and so on. It should be well written,so that you can see every now and then. Can you have a strong will to overcome difficualties to achieve it.
Strong desire: you must have a driving force behind the amount of money you want to earn in your life,do you see worthy of the money,are you admiring the lifestlye of the people who have the money you want to have.
Plan: you must sit and look at the current situation you are in and draw a plan on how you want to earn the amount of money you want. Let us say you want to earn $10,000 per month. Then you have to ask yourself what are some of the acivities i need to do so that i can reach these goal,if then am i doing them. When i evaluated my money consciousness. I discovred the activities i was doing would not make me have the money i wanted ,so i have to redefine everything.
Will power: you must understand that once you recognize that the current activities are not empowering and cannot help you generate the amount of money you want and you have drawn a different plan to help you achieve your financial status, you must surmon the courage to face the current reality and cultivate a new one ,and all these need a will power. Without will power you will remain the same and continue wishing for the rest of your life.
Habits: once you recognize the new opportunities and sure that they shall garantee you the income that you want. Then you must develop daily habit which are congruent to the person you want to have,meaning you must drop habit that have inconguencies in you life and bring in new one. It will not be easy but if you do it repeated finally you will reap the benefits. Once i recognised that if i wanted to be more productive i must wake up at 3.00am in the morning and start working, you think it was an easy thing. But having knowledge that this thing is for my own good i just persisted and you cannot be persisted if you dont love something.

For sure if we have knowledge of the above, i want to assure you that you will achieve the financial status you wanted or earn the amount of money you have been enevying in your life.

The challenge of finding your life purpose

2008-09-05T20:38:00.000-07:00

Finding your purpose in life is a huge responsibility, both for men and women. There is an old saying that “the longest journey begins with one step” there are practical steps you can take that will help you identify and define your God-given purpose. They are the same steps that Nehemiah in the Bible took to find and confirm what God called him to do. Its significance. Discovering a life purpose is one of the greatest blessings you’ll ever experience, and having non is one of life’s greatest curses.
Some people really feel the weight of this choice, and it scares them. I see this lot with many people around me. What if I was created without a purpose? What if I have many purposes in life? What if I discover my purpose but my parents don’t agree with me? Those are all good questions. It’s great to be asking them ahead of time.
It’s OK to be a little anxious about this choice, but don’t let the fear stop you from exercising your ability to discover consciously. You don’t have to be perfect. You don’t even have to be right at first. In fact, you’ll get much better results in the long run if you’re willing to continue the journey.
Consider the following points we learn from Nehemiah.
1. Nehemiah sought the Lord for his purpose.- you may sometimes be aware of your purpose because you are not aware and have to raise your awareness and ask God to reveal it to you. Nehemiah 1:4 says “when I heard these things, I sat down and wept . for some days I mourned and fasted and prayed before the God of heaven” we learn that at that time Nehemiah discovered what God wanted him to do. You can easily take your purpose for granted because to you is second to nature. You may already know your purpose or be closer to knowing it than you realize. And Nehemiah is purpose was to rebuild Jerusalem, the city of his fathers, which is why he asked visitors how it was back home. It was not Nehemiah who was there only but there where so many people but it is only Nehemiah who inquired and had burden for Jerusalem.
2. Nehemiah saw himself as a team player.- you need to see yourself fulfilling your purpose while working as a team player. Don’t stand far and start condemning and complaining that something is not being done. You might find it is you only who is seeing what you are seeing and it is waiting you to sort it out ,go out and do it. Compare that with what Nehemiah could have said .” my fathers sinned and they did these things wrong” but that was not the fact, he always said we did this, we did that because he had the right attitude, God clearly revealed to him that he was to have a role in the rebuilding process. Only “we” people get that privilege.
3. You must be able to clearly describe your purpose – you need to have a statement that explains your purpose in life, write it down and let it be your point of reference whenever you are making any decision in life. Until you have that, you can’t be effective because you will lack focus in your in life. Nehemiah knew it all along even when he got opposed.
4. Recognize that it is God who gives ability to fulfill your purpose in life. - Your purpose in life will require faith and diligence if your want to be effective. Everyone in the bible was overwhelmed by their purpose. Even Jesus sweat drops of blood when he came to the hour in which his purpose would be fulfilled, may times you must trust that God is leading in the right direction and out of you comfort zone and just press on.
Making the mistake of living without life purpose
I’m going to be totally straight with you. If you make a mistake and stay without a purpose you’ll probably suffer because you will lack focus. It would not be an easy thing to do but it is the best decision you can ever make in life. Discover your purpose today and you will never regret. May God bless you?

How can I raise my financial IQ? make an intelligent choice

2008-09-05T00:25:00.000-07:00

While there is absolutely no question that there are universal laws of success and general principles,rules,traits and habits shared by most successful people, the mixture of those elements could never be the same for every person. Every combination lock has the same numbers on it. But each one requires a different sequence to open. The determinant on how to raise you financial IQ remains up to you and me to find.
At various times in our lives we will come to a dead-end crossroads where we just aren’t sure what to choose. If you’re a very objective person, you might prefer may be to hold back from making a decision until evidence is shown to you. Of course the problem with that approach is that often the evidence of a clear winner never arrives.
There are some potential paths through life which simply cannot be understood from the outside looking in. For example, consider the path of raising your own financial IQ. This path looks very different from the outside looking in than it does from the inside looking out. I think the only way you can really know which path is right for you is to start and start raising your financial IQ for a while, and compare with when you don’t raise at all and see which one you like better. I never knew how to rise for financial IQ for long and understand how it feels and I have tried raising my IQ, I really love it. So it was an easy decision for me to choose the latter than former one. I don’t have to fantasize about which path might be the right one — I tested both options and selected the one that was right for me. But always trust in God to help you make wise decision.
After experiencing both paths for yourself, which one should you choose? Choose the one that empowers you the most — the path of greatest empowerment. You will generally find that one path is more empowering than the other. If you adopt that staying with the current mode of reality you have like struggling to pay bills and you find yourself less capable of functioning in the world, having a harder time achieving your goals, and experiencing more frustration and other negative emotions, that path is disempowering. If you change your mode of reality and want to raise your financial IQ and find yourself attracting more money into your life, achieving your goals more easily, and experiencing more joy and other positive emotions, that path is empowering. It is up to you to choose which better is empowering.
The point is that your future is yet to be made. You may as well make it up today and make it up the way you want it to be, rather than what you are afraid it might not be. Too many people go to the worst case choosing rather than the best case choosing when it comes to financial issue. It has the positive effect of increasing your certainty that your default path is still the current best. So try changing to experience new version to test whether it will be of any help and I want to assure you that you current default is not the best because it might have been installed by someone else than you. The only way to raise your financial vibrations is see things differently than normal then you will be free.
I think you’ll find this mindset beneficial as we explore different ways on how to raise financial intelligence .Perhaps the biggest challenge of this approach is when you try a new path, and it works, but it’s such a radical departure from what you’re used to that it turns your whole notion of reality upside down. That’s happened to me more than once. For example, if your life is centered around a belief that you have to get a job or go back to class and add a professional course to position yourself for a financial increase than maybe starting your own business or investing your money to earn you multiple stream of income then that ’s a really big shift you’re facing. How do you handle it? In the long run, I find it’s best to bite the bullet and do whatever it takes to integrate that new knowledge, even if it causes radical shifts in your career and relationships. It may take weeks, months or years to resurface in a place that feels comfortable again.

How to overcome yourself from postponing accomplishing tasks(procrastination).

2008-09-03T22:18:00.000-07:00

I can call it a “disease” which has infected many people in the world today. And it is the habit of putting off tasks to the last minute and has costed major problems both in personally and career wise. We have missed many good things in life because of procrastination. What are some of the causes of procrastinating and how can we overcome it.

Our mode of reality- the way we have conditioned our mind to function is major obstacle to us procrastination and since you feel that whatever you have to do seems a forced one. You might want to postpone, so that you can do it later since you don’t see any reason to do it. By reasoning in you head, you come with excuses that is associated to what you want to do. You will think that negatively about the tasks for example someone might come up with an idea of starting a business. Then immediately think of the consequences like, what if the business fails, do I have enough money to start the business or what if my friends don’t agree with me. For sure you have not even started the business but here you are contemplating negative thoughts in your head, why cant you accommodate positive thoughts for having the business flourishing and bringing you a lot of cash, many of your friends admiring you, having the freedom of being your own boss. Because of the response of the thoughts we have, we find many times will determine of us not starting something and hence procrastination. Associate the tasks with positive benefits and you would have overcome procrastination.

Another cause of procrastinating is having thoughts about the steps you can take to complete the whole thing. When you think of finishing the whole thing at ago, you are creating a feeling of overwhelm in you. Since you can’t understand how you will finish the thing it will make you keep on putting off to gather for more information and than start it. The suggestion is that you break down the task into small pieces ,instead of thinking to finish that you must finish the whole thing
If you really understand this your life will change dramatically.

The journey to your purpose in life

2008-09-02T23:52:00.000-07:00

Many of us we are living a life, where we don’t know where we are coming from and where we are going. Good for those who discover their purpose in life and effectively live to serve to the fullest. Discovering your purpose in life is a process and you need some guidelines to give you a sense of direction to clarify your purpose. And as it becomes clear, then commit yourself wholeheartedly to pursue it.
The following is a guideline I followed to discover my dream in life which is a purpose. Many other times we have ever lived doing our purpose but ignorantly, the best times comes when you pursue it knowingly because it gives you control over your life rather than living in fear.
Look for a quite place alone, with a pen and a paper write down what you thought your mission in life and the things you have done and seemed easy to do and enjoyed doing them. You always found people complimenting you and it seemed natural for you doing them and mistakenly that everyone is capable of doing them.
Next, discover the talents and gifts that give you power to do the things you have easily been doing that nobody else can do what you have been doing. They are unique and special to you in particular.
Make them part of you because your life purpose is all about. Many people have thought that. If you want to discover your life purpose is a hard work, I can agree because it is the opposite. It is a hard work to live your comfort zone and by faith pursue your life purpose.
There is one last point I would like to make about recognizing your purpose. More often than not, people have difficult getting focused on what it is they are put on this planet to do because they are already doing something day in day out that exhausts their time and in the end, feel they are on the right track because they are covering most of their bills. Just because you have a 9 to 5 obligation and your bills are getting paid doesn’t mean that you have figured out your true purpose. This fact however can often block or impede your progress toward that better and higher use of your time and talents.

Let this not overwhelm you because once you step out o your comfort zone is when you discover how foolish things you were doing before and you wish you had discovered earlier. Some people get stuck and are afraid or reluctant to make a move because they just can’t see how their purpose will pay the bills. Furthermore they have been programmed form infancy to believe it is better to be safe than sorry.

In this context I mean it is not better to be safe than sorry, but picturing yourself reaching the end of the road, do you think you will be happy because you had a safe journey but you regret that never did the things you dreamed of in life.

What will happen when you leave you current status and pursue your life purpose there are sacrifices you have to make in order to have anything good in life. And this is what scares most of the people not to pursue their purpose in life. But remember you can’t get to the top unless you leave the bottom and this applies to every facet of life. Think of the people who are looking for a new relationship but they still haven’t let go of the old one. Look at the people starting diet programs who cant give up their morning cream cheese.

What would you sacrifice in order to move into a new life? In order to obtain your dream. You are not going to endanger you life or the lives of those around you. You are not going to give up your health. But you might give up something you enjoy as a pastime or hobby or watching TV to devote more time to creating this dream of yours. Now start today to do what you truly love

What lessons can we learn from the Wright brothers?

2008-09-01T23:24:00.000-07:00

Orville and Wilbur Wright were brothers who knew how to practice on how to fail. They knew the risks before them but they saw them as not risky. They knew they were going to fail so they found a very safe piece of ground to fail on. They did not jump off edges or cliffs but found a large flat piece of ground with a good strong wind, and practiced until the day they would fly.
While the rest of the world saw objectively that what they were doing was impossible. The Wright brothers subjectively saw a possibility in the mind and the thoughts were being manifested which would finally bring reality into place and that is why most of the time when you share an idea which has not manifested and you get discouraged by the people whom you have shared with. If you are convicted that it is a noble idea don’t stop because for them is beyond their reality and always measure their views and the position they are as per see. This practice has killed very many ideas which would be helpful in the world today.
Because of the willingness of the Wright brothers to attempt the impossibility they changed the world forever. They stretched their mode of reality and made the impossible to be possible. They spend many years working on making the possibility a reality

How did they make it possible?

They went into the future to make human fly, which was the ideal thing for them and it fascinated them. That made them act as from the perspective of their present life. This goes to those of us who think that it is impossible to have financial abundance, good relationship, happy marriage, successful career and the rest simply because your past was bad and the present is also in turmoil which makes you give up and curse why you were born.

The Wright brothers knew that nobody ever flown at that time and neither they had done it but they accepted the responsibility of everything but did what we call creative observation whereby they would see the ideal flying in the future but act as if it has happened and continue working towards the reality. The case here is that you can’t deny the situation because it is you who created it, but must take the responsibility and improve the situation. Thus the Wright brother practiced failing in order to fly. Practicing failing was creative observation because for us we think it was failing forward but slowly they were improving the situation until it became a reality. We can also apply the same principle by accepting the marriage is in turmoil, you luck money, and you don’t love your current work.
Creative observation.

When you accept your current situation, then bring the picture of the ideal situation you want to have in the future, having your own business maybe, getting a job you love, having a fulfilling marriage. What are the things this ideal situation has that my current situation don’t have, list them down, and start acting on them one after the other step by step and put a target and am not promising that it will be an easy job but it call for self-discipline which might be hard for you but fail forward as the Wright brother and within a certain period weight the situation and see whether there is improvement reward yourself and continue enjoying the process. Do this and send me an email.

The power of “DO IT NOW”

2008-08-27T22:48:00.000-07:00

May I humbly say that the habit of do it now is one of the greatest asset we have. This habit is so much a part of life that I believe we should exercise daily to achieve anything we conceive in our mind. Here am not referring to the harebrained decisions. In fact you must gather all the facts then you are sure you don’t have any reason to procrastinate. You have to take stock of your abilities, your fellowmen, and your situation as you see it and your best self and set forth with a definite plan in mind. We must remember and recognize as human beings that we are the only creatures on earth who can appropriate the power of the mind and direct it to the ends of our own choice. No animal can do that. Animals have what is called instinct but they cannot go one iota beyond that.
Those who reach decisions promptly ad definately, know what they want and generally get it. The leaders in every walk of life decide quickly and firmly. Indecision is a habit usually begins early and follows an individual through his life hood and ninety-eight out of every hundred people living today lack definiteness of decision to plan a definite life and how to choose it..
Definiteness of decision always requires courage, sometimes very great courage. And this needs us to resourcefully use our sixth sense which is creative imagination. The faculty of creative imagination is one which the majority of people never use during their entire lifetime and if used at all, it usually happens by mere accident. Relatively small number of people use, with deliberation and purpose aforethought, the faculty of creative imagination if made to use can make us take action and reap the benefits which many misses.
Begin now to sow thoughts of peace, happiness, right action, goodwill, and prosperity. Think quietly and with conviction on these qualities. Accept them fully in your conscious reasoning mind. Continue to plant these wonderful seeds of thought in the garden of your mind and you will reap a glorious harvest.
When your mind thinks correctly, when you understand the truth, when the thoughts deposited in your subconscious mind are consctructive, harmonious and peaceful, and the magic working power of your subconscious will respond. It will bring about harmonious conditions, agreeable surrounding and the best of everything. Once you begin to control your thought processes, you can apply the powers of your subconscious to any problem of difficulty and do something now without procrastinating. You will actually be consciously cooperating with the infinite powers and omnipotent law that governs all things.
Now, start acting by doing whatever you think now without postponing anything and you will find power.

How to make changes in our lives

2008-08-27T00:05:00.000-07:00

Whatever your self-concept, your habit of thinking with regard to money or any
Other area of performance, this very soon becomes your “comfort zone.” Your
Comfort zone then becomes your greatest single obstacle to improved performance.
Once you get into a comfort zone in any area, you will strive and struggle
Unconsciously to remain in that comfort zone, even though it may be vastly below
What you are truly capable of achieving in that area.
We may not see the sweet become the bitter until the taste fills our mouth and our eyes are watering with the pain of the transformation. The only certain about life is that it will change. We are forced to keep the change in our lives whether we want to or not, realizing that the best of situations can turn on a dime and become the worst crisis we have faced. So many of life is hardship derive their power from the unexpected timing of the punch the catches off guard
The key to achieving your full potential, to increasing your income to vastly higher
Levels than it is today, and to enjoying the very best that is possible for you in
Every area of life is for you to raise your self-concept in that area. It is for you to
Develop new habits of thinking about what is possible for you. The way that you
Accomplish vastly more on the outside is by changing your thoughts and feelings
About your potential in that area on the inside.
No matter how faith-filled, how financially responsible, how politically correct you are, how congenial you may be with others, you will inevitably find yourself from time to time facing moments that threaten you like a terrorist attack. These private haunt us and leave us with a secret angst that hangs around like hot spicy foods in a system that has no gall bladder.
There is a direct relationship between the amount of control you enjoy and the amount of responsibility you accept. If you take the time to become aware of it and assume responsibility for it you can control what you imagine and the way you see yourself and the way you want your future to unfold. When you face difficult decisions or uncertain, it helps to seek counsel from someone you respect. We should always stay open and be willing to take advice.
The only way to raise our awareness is to continue learning and developing, we need to strive to maintain the readiness to learn even from seemingly unlikely sources. Such sources would include persons younger than us, less educated than we are or those who do not have the exposure that we have had in life. This takes lots of humility which in an age of competitiveness doesn’t feature on top of the must have traits.

Change your content and context and success is on your way

2008-08-25T00:46:00.001-07:00

I contend that if a person has ever increasing context and content, the person will change habitually and be different. It is not what you say or talk that make you different but you mode of thinking. If you are in a storm today, now more than ever you need to guard what you say and not allow any negative, destructive words to come of your mouth. In other words you create an environment for either good or evil with words and you are going to have to live in that world you have created. If you are always murmuring, complaining and talking about how bad life is treating you. You are going to live in a pretty miserable, depressing world.
Friend, there is miracle in your mouth. If you want to change your world, start by changing your words. When times get tough, don’t give in to murmuring, disputing and complaining. Speak to those problems. If you learn how to speak the right words and keeps the right attitude. God will turn that situation around.

Let’s be real, though. You may have a deep river of negativity and it s going to take a strong will to change. The river was not formed overnight, nor will be redirected without some conscious, strenuous effort on your part. God will help you, but you are going to have to make quality decisions every day, choosing the good, rejecting the bad. Determine to keep your mind set on the good things of God.
Why there seems s no change at all
We know people like to hold on to old ideas and beliefs as though they were valued personal possessions including the words out of the mouth. Why is this? In part to reconsider adopted points of view involves thinking. In fact, it involves original thinking. Which questions a previous assumption or the original basis for a previous assumption? All such thinking “hurts” since it requires considerable effort and self-analysis. As well, it involves some risk. People will not throw away an old habit until they have acquired a new one to replace it then discard the old one. People will not accept a new idea unless they believe to do so is their self interest. In other words the new idea or belief has a better “fit and feel” than the old one in the total context of a person’s new reality structure, the new way you are seeing yourself.
Unfortunately, people who do no think their past are condemned to repeat it. Habitual thinking can only lead to habitual behavior. it can be compared to treading water or marking time as the world passes you by. The only people who can change their mind are those who use it.
How can you have the new change of habit?
Clearly there is hope for everyone. You need only program you subconscious mind with artificial, winning experiences as effectively as real-life experiences. You can use your own resources, knowledge and imagination in this positive, purposeful way instead of waiting for your circumstances and environment to take care of you.
Decide that you will be a person of your word with reputation on the line. Put your resolution in writing and place it where it will continually remind you.
Ask for divine strength to support you. Start expecting good things. Get up each morning knowing that God has great things in store for you. When you get out of bed “father, I am
Excited about today. This is a day you have made, I ‘m going to rejoice and be glad in it, God. I know you reward those who seek you, so I thank you in advance for your blessings, favor and victory in my life today”. Then go out and live with expectancy; live with faith. Ask others to help keep you accountable. Make your decisions public. Public pledges are difficult to break because you don’t want to let others down. Next have a definite plan, but avoid inflexibility. Then make your plan a part of your daily life, go for moderation and balance and expect progress to be gradual. If it took you years to be what you are, it will takes some time before you get what you want.(never be promised that it is an overnight thing). Enjoy the process, not just the end product. And don’t be hard on yourself. Old habits die hard. Monitor your progress on a regular basis, but don’t be obsessive. Follow the 90/10 rule rather than 100/0 rule. Go for 90 percent compliance. Cut yourself a little slack, rather than wallow in quilt. Give credit where credit is due; thank the Lord for your success.

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How to discover the journey back home.

2008-08-14T23:43:00.000-07:00

Personal growth is the most important key in unlocking our potential. The potential that lies within us is largely limitless and largely untapped. When we think of the limits, we create them. For us to grow we must embrace the fact of growing from inside and not outside-inside.
Ultimately the responsibility to develop ourselves rests squarely on us. Where we are on the journey of development is entirely our prerogative. The moment we really want to be different we set the change process in motion.
The most life-destroying word of all is the word tomorrow, the poor, the unsuccessful, the unhappy, the unhealthy have accommodated this word and they normally use it in a daily basis as the reason they don’t want to take responsibility and start the journey of growth. The problem with the word tomorrow is that I have never seen tomorrow. Tomorrows do not exist. Tomorrow only exist in the minds of dreamers and losers. People who put off till tomorrow find that the sins and bad habits of their past eventually catch up with them.

Every one of us creates a story about his own life, even if he only tells it to himself. For some is all about being a victim. They are the way they are because of their childhoods or because of where they grew up or because of the bad things that have happened to them. So many people in the world today are professional victims.

Because playing the victim is easy. You do not have to assume any responsibility for the way your life looks. You can blame everyone else for what’s not working in your life, never having to look at yourself and make the changes required and grow as person.
The journey of growth begins with the discovery and development of purpose.

What on earth are you here for? This is the question to answer. Until we candidly answer the question we will not have sustained growth. Our focus will be divided and our energies spread out too thin. But when we know our purpose, we can then build our lives around it. We will find ourselves making a difference in this life if we priotize according to that purpose.

Many possible paths to our lives have been written for us. There are many doorways into the mansion of bliss. Just as there are many routes you can take to get to your biggest life, the life that has been meant for you-getting there is a homecoming of sorts as well. There are many jobs, you can take that will get you to your destiny. Similarly there are many souls’ mates available to you, each offering different lessons, but all able to help you grow into and awaken your best. Getting to your highest self and biggest life is the main purpose of life.

Getting home to the place of brilliance, love, and fearlessness you have forgotten is the reason for your existence. Now it’s up to you which route or path you take as you attempt to get to your authentic life. No one path is better than the other-just look different. Taking one path might mean a longer trip, just you need to travel a longer distance and face a few bumpier roads. Taking another path might be like taking an expressway to your destination with a smooth ride and cloudless blue skies. It’s up to you. It’s in large part determined by the choices you make within the moments of your days.

Can get what you really want in your life

2008-08-13T23:20:00.000-07:00

Life does not listen to your logic; it goes on its own way undisturbed. You have to listen to life, life will not listen to your logic, and it does not bother about our logic.
OSHO

As human beings, our tendency is to tell life to listen to what we want. But life doesn’t work like that way. It gives us what we need, what is best for us and what is in our highest interest. Often the most difficult part of taking those first steps towards the part to success is not with the actual execution of the plan, but rather in your ability to take the full responsibility for your life. Jack canfield in his book success principles states a single formula that you can adopt in taking responsibility for your life and for changing the desired outcome that you want in your life. The formula is E+R=O. Whereby E stands for Event and R stands for Response and O is the outcome.

Events always remain an uncontrollable given in the equation because you have little or no control over what happens in the outside world. You have no control over flood, and the rest. What you find is that people often focus and waste much of their energy blaming and trying to control things which are beyond them which removes all the responsibility that they have from changing their desired outcome for the better.

Rather than blaming the events which are beyond our control, we should take the responsibility and change the way we respond to it. Nothing offers you as big opportunity to reclaim more power than what we possess. Sometimes our human eyes can view it as a negative experience and we can start blaming ourselves for no good reason; where is God when all this is happening? Why was I born to this unfriendly world? And so many other lames reasoning. This is just but fear which is making to behave like a mouse because you don’t want to take responsibility in your life.

You see suffering occurs when something happens that we did not expect. It occurs when life gives something unexpected, some new condition and it will come as an event maybe becoming ill or the loss of someone you loved in your life, financial setback which is beyond your control, like the case of post-election wars we experienced here in Kenya January 2008 and many people lost their lives, relatives and many properties were lost and business made huge losses, which affected everyone here in Kenya and there was a lot of blaming going on around and the response is all will determine the outcome. We are asked to let go of what we expected for a human being and letting go can be frightening.

But there is nothing to fear. The universe of ours is a far friendlier place than we realize. Suffering comes to help us and causes us to know who we truly are. Suffering cracks us and we open, forcing us to let go and surrender all that we have known and clung to. Clinging to safe shore in your life is nothing more than making a choice to remain imprisoned by your fears. There may be the illusion that you are free when you keep living within the box that your life may have become but believe me it’s just that: an illusion- a lie you tell yourself. But when you will take full responsibility to your life and leave the box for new ventures then you would have changed your outcome completely in your life.

There is much darkness in the world. But trust me there is also more light in it than ever. So many people have come to realize that you can curse the darkness or you can have the courage to be one who lights a candle. That is what taking responsibility is all about lighting candles amidst darkness. Darkness only exists in the absence of light.

We are moving towards a critical mass, a tipping point when there will be a massive shift. When enough people awaken to take up responsibility in their lives and there will be quantum leap. People will take a path that involves living life according to their own deepest values and highest ideals that is taking total responsibility with an open heart and a developed mind. Are you ready?

HOW TO OVERCOME ANY ADDICTION

2008-08-12T10:19:00.000-07:00

Do you have a nagging habit grab you and push you to do what you vowed you wouldn’t do? You give up coffee and shakes. Suddenly bang! The craving hits. What do you do?
I have found a very practical way which can assist you if you can borrow it. I tried it and infact it worked for me, rather than, trying to stop suddenly the habit you have already created we trick into continuing with the current habit we have or something which you want to stop and cheat your way out of it, what I mean is that instead of stopping it we can trick the subconscious mind that you will have it later.
For example you have a craving for coffee and you have understood that coffee has become an addict to you and feel should stop it but don’t know how, instead of stopping it you can have a strategy in which you have merit, for six days you can take other beverages apart from coffee and then on the seventh day you can take the coffee the whole day as much as you want.
This “cheat day” tricks you into controlling your craving instead of allowing it to control you. So that when you look inside your freezer and find coffee and want to take it you can tell yourself that am going to have it on Sunday anyway. But a funny thing is that you will Sunday and find out that the desire for it was just an impulse of the moment.
I have been trying this strategy in my stopping of things which are not congruent with my beliefs in life and which are not empowering and have found it to be a very good strategy. Have shared with others too to try and am getting positive response from it even though some few individuals sound like a cop out, especially when they are trying to make a complete lifestyle change in life. The feeling good about it is the answer to the habit you have because what you imagined was better than the real thing.

Enjoy the process as you create a new habit, goal or an accomplishment.

2008-08-11T09:01:00.000-07:00

Starting a goal and sticking with it- may be one of the most challenging tasks you’ll ever face. For example to be successful managing your weight, you must commit to get fit. Since we are human creatures of habit. Adopting a new lifestyle require breaking old, ingrained habits and forging new and perhaps unfamiliar ones. Many meet waterloo on this first step because their decision is based on emotional enthusiasm rather than a disciplined commitment.
When the going gets tough and the emotional highs fade, the strengths of your commitment must carry you through. Decide that you will be a person of your word-with reputation on the line. Put you resolution in writing and place it where it will continually remind you. What do you need in order to keep your commitment? Here is a list of essentials:
• Have a definite plan but avoid inflexibility
• Make modest beginning goals. Drastic change may be necessary if serious health hazards need to be dealt with but, generally speaking, excessive goals set you up for failure.
• Make your plan a part of your daily life.
• Go for moderation and balance.
• Expect progress to be gradual. If it took years to get out of shape it will take months to get it back.
• Enjoy the process, not just the end product.
• Don’t be too hard on yourself. Old habit dies hard.
• Monitor your progress on a regular basis, but don’t be obsessive
• Follow the 90/10 rule rather than 100/0 rule. Go for 90 percent compliance. cut yourself a little slack, rather than wallow in guilt.
• Give credit where credit is due.

Ask others to help keep you accountable. Make your decision public. Public pledges are difficult to break because you don’t want to let others down. I wish you success and raise your awareness to live righteously.

How to keep on getting what you really wanted in life

2008-08-07T22:12:00.000-07:00

Life can constantly change as you respond to events, people and opportunities. Sometimes you have to make deliberate growth in order to be congruent with your personal growth. You will fail several times before you make any significant towards your goals. Your mistakes will be your lessons along the way. The experience you will gain cannot allow your past mistakes to bind and gag you down.
Many of us believe that we have to be in the right place at the right time in order to achieve, much like winning a lottery. Let us not forget that success is a direct consequence of our wanting a more abundant life and working to earn it is like wading through the mud puddles of life toward the unfair beckoning sea waiting to swallow you.

There is nothing worse like reaching the end of your life and start wandering what could have happened or should have happened, but somehow didn’t happen. The sad memories of lost opportunities have made many people in the world to live in a bitter life for the rest of their lives on earth.
Many times we want to live to our fullest in the all aspects of life, spiritually, financially and even relationally. And yet we are always settling for less all the time. You feel abused in the current relationship you are, you unfulfilling job but you feel don’t have any other alternative, and you want to start your own business but don’t feel some in you. Do you want more out of the next phase of life than what you have now?
Let is face the truth and listen to our hearts what is spoken to us today and correct what you are wiling to confront. Do you have the courage to move ahead and make the big step?
It is very painful to accept the current situation and yet were meant for more, wanting to work in job where you talents and capabilities are not recognized, living with someone who you feel is not appreciative even if you have tried hard how long.

If you commit to following the path of courage, you will ultimately be forced to confront what is perhaps the greatest fear of all - that you are far more powerful and capable than you initially realized, that your ultimate potential is far greater than anything you've experienced in your past, and that with this power comes tremendous responsibility. You may not be able to solve all the woes of this planet, but if you ever do commit yourself 100% to the fulfillment of your true potential, you can significantly impact the lives of many people, and that impact will ripple through the future for generations to come and live a fulfilling live ever more. Let us start now and move despite of anything and shall better it as we move along.

Managing the monkeys in your life

2008-08-05T23:56:00.000-07:00

Things that need to be done are like monkeys. Feed them and they’ll never go home. They cling to you. They vie for your attention. They multiply until they‘ve control of your life. They cause stress. Now! What is this monkey in your life, is it a bad relationship you want to end, is it a career you want to change, is it a nagging spouse and don’t know what to do. Don’t allow the monkey to stress you. Get hold of your life right now and keep it in control. I will share more next keep on reading.
Thought of the daySow for yourself righteousness; reap in mercy; break up your furrow ground, for it is time to seek the Lord, till He comes and rains righteousness on you. (Hosea 10:12)

you have your own success formula in life

2008-08-05T00:09:00.000-07:00

You will not be successful if you follow someone else success or strategy for success. Because you are unique and you have to develop your own success strategy. Why am I so confident that no one will ever give you a blueprint for success, the answer is so simple and can be found in what is success. Many of us who have tried to define what success is have not found any answer to the question. Because there is no single definition of success.
All successful people say that success is different from every person. So what I consider success, you might consider failure, right? You are 100% unique. What I have read in the market about the success formula is only a simple step for someone which assisted him or her achieve what he calls success. Therefore the steps he followed, which are based on HIS character, circumstances, current trends, and specific point in time are only really valid for him.
Many have argued that there are universal laws of success and general principles,rules,traits and habits shared among most successful people, and I want to point out that the mixture of the elements is the one which will determine your success because all of are very unique from one another. Which I can say every combination lock has a number on it. But each one requires a different sequence to open it.

Let is not forget that only you who can decide the best way to reach the level of success you want to reach. The successful people will only inspire you that you can make it and show you they did their recipes but you must formulate your own success strategy which is in line with your unique talents and skills you have in life. What are some of the ingredients you need to kick off you own success journey in life:
• You must have a purpose in life that you are passionate about.
• Universal laws and success principles which are prove.
• Success stories that illustrate how success is created in the real world and how successful people put their principles into action.

Let start forge our own strategy and will shall be successful on our own way.

How can you motivate yourself even if life seems unfair.

2008-08-01T00:02:00.000-07:00

When you wake up the morning feeling down, sometimes you feel like what is the need of living, why can’t I die now and cease to exist because life has no meaning at all. Many people we go through the same situation and no one is seems to care about your feeling and everybody is against you. I want to assure you that you are not an exception and that is why we all need to be motivated for us to start acting with enthusiasm.
We need to find out what is this really causing us to feel down, and many times is the things which we don’t want in our lives are the one causing us to feel down. you might find that it is lack of money which is making you feel down, it may be a relationship which is at deadlock and you feel it should end now, sometimes part of you body is ill and feeling uncomfortable right now, your career is unfailing and you really want something fulfilling what is it that is making you feel down and lack motivation.

Many people are finding themselves in your shoes, don’t kill yourself as –Fulton j. sheen said, each of us makes his own weather, determines the color of the skies in the emotional universe which he inhabits. It is only the thought we are making you be what you are now and how can you feel better again.
The best advice I can give you on what you need to do is to remember something which one time made you happy for example you can remember the reward you were given once, or the time you met your loved one and how you felt. The second alternative which can assist you and give you motivation is to put on a motivation audio and start listening to them continuously they are readily available in the nearest store please get one for yourself ,I want to assure you that you will start feeling better and have energy to do something for that day. I hope I have been of use to you today, wish you nice day and see you next time you are a wonderful beings and thank you for your contribution to the society.

To succeed in life is like being in a soccer game, which part are you playing

2008-07-31T08:17:00.000-07:00

As I was growing up I got interested with playing soccer, which was believed to be a boy’s game in our society at that time. I played up to a national level during the school’s competition in our country Kenya and it is one of the games which we played with a lot of passion.

I remember we would gather together and play it since morning. During the weekends we used to go nearby stadium. Which was Gusii stadium and watch Shabana play AFC Leopards from Nairobi. It was very interesting game. We were regarded young and growing up we never paid entry fee and simply squeezed ourselves inside as small children. Right now many people are enthusiastic for the English soccer and you would hear them talk of Man U, Arsenal and such. For me I lost interest long time ago because I didn’t want to build myself into a soccer fanatic, whereby you will stay up long hours to watch the soccer.mmmmh I don’t know whether my wife will allow me to watch it now! That is a topic for next time.

Being a player or fan, both are interesting because, there is something you learn. Why do I say so, when you are a player you are playing the real game but being a fan you are a virtual player and that is why you find a player missing scoring everyone becomes angry. Because in their heads already they had scored and when you don’t fulfill it they get disappointed.

Then the other day I was thinking how this game can teach something about life lessons. Collectively if we understand soccer then we can apply it to develop our lives. Ask anyone who is a player they would tell you when you want to play; there are basic rules which must be followed in order to play well. For example you need to exercise a lot to keep fit. You must eat a health diet more sore the one which boost energy in your body. You have to always watch accomplished teams to pick and learn tact used for scoring. Your team must have a mentor who is called a coach and many times you have to stay in the camp for team building.

The above are basic rules which any team have to follow to be an accomplished team. And if you have a good coach who will teach you skills and pattern to use while playing against an opponent, you will be a respected and watched after team. In the field you have a goal keeper, who makes sure no ball passes through, then the defense, midfielders and the striking force. It is up to the coach to know how many defenders should be there, midfielders, strikers and the playing pattern.
Mostly what helps the team to succeed is the coordination, because if you have good strikers but the defense is weak definitely you can’t win the game. Therefore all areas must be balanced and well coordinated and sometimes you might have good players but if they don’t coordinate also, also not winning.

This personal development industry is simply like playing soccer, why instead of playing as a team of 12 players, you have a personal team which is making you to be a conscious person. That is the body, mind, heart and spirit which are playing in a wider consciousness. For us to succeed in life ,we must learn basic rules like exercising to keep the body fit, eating diet food to boost the energy and keep the body going, developing our skills and discovering the inborn talents and gifts, recognizing where we love playing for example me a loved to be a goalkeeper. So you also know where you really love to play, whether to be a goalkeeper like I used, the defence, striker, the point is to listen to your heart and follow.
The last but not least is to recognize that we have a coach who is understanding and better skilled than we are and in this case of life it is God. He created, he know our strength and weakness and must know the purpose he has for us which is to serve one another and He is the one coordinating everything and we must listen to Him. We must understand that this game of life like the soccer analogy we cant play alone and we must coordinate with others in order to succeed and the most important point is that the larger team is our consciousness and as for the team which stays in the camp we are incorporated in the large consciousness to play and therefore we are as one team (consciousness).

What have happens if we don’t recognize that we are as a team, definitely we shall fail as individuals and make the team to fail as a whole and this is why we are having a lot of problems in the world like poverty, diseases, war, terrorism because many have not recognized that we are in a larger consciousness and all suffer instead. And that is why if there is war, it affects everyone. For example recently in the months of December 2007, and January 2008, Kenya had post election war because people taught the election was not done fairly and resolved to physical of killing one another, and it affected everyone including those who taught it would not affect them. The same case with terrorism, it affected the whole world.

If we recognized that we are a team and follow the basic rules for individuals and recognize that we have control over ourselves definitely life would be a better place to be.
The question remains can one person bring a change, let’s say me have an impact, I want to say strongly that it is possible if we continue raising our awareness and affect one another even if in a small way and as a goals keeper or a striker I can say I did my part and we lost as a team and not as an individual. It is up to you now!

Don’t settle for bones go for the meat

2008-07-29T23:35:00.000-07:00

Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Many people in the world keep dogs, maybe for security or for fun. The use doesn’t matter for now because it all depends, for me we kept many as we were growing up here in Africa, Kenya. We loved them so much because they provided security to our home. Many times we believed the dog would alert us if anything happened, for example if a thief came stealing the dog would bark and make us prepare to hunt the culprit. This went long but thieves became clever when it came to stealing, once they realized that people kept dogs to prevent them from stealing.

They also devised a way to curb the whole thing. They studied what dogs loved and found out it was given bones to eat. For them went for the loveable one, they would go and come with the steak and not bones. Once they wanted to steal, they could throw the steak at the dogs and since the dogs had missed the meat so much. They would take attention to the meat and forget the role had put to play and the thieves would walk away with whatever they came to steal.

I know many people would think why keep a dog to give you security, but as I said earlier it depends on the purpose you want to tame the dog for. One thing I learnt from this experience is that, many people think dogs love eating bones but one thing we also forget is that they love the steak which man love so much and only settled for bones because they don’t have any other alternative.

If they had power to make a choice on what to take, I want to assure you that no dog would go for bones but would scramble for the steak. What lesson can we learn from here and what can we teach ourselves. Have you settled for mediocre life or spectacular life? It doesn’t mean that since no one from your area had ever lived good life, you also want to settle for the same.

We are not like dogs to accept anything but we are beings who were created with a purpose and that purpose is to be unique and different so that we can be of service to one another. How many times have we settled for a certain career which is not fulfilling but since it is paying well and you don’t have any other alternative you just keep on? It is high time we follow what the heart is talking about and quit to do what we where meant to be.

Somebody will say but I have gone far with this job, relationship, marriage, career and etc. how can I quit to start a fresh. But do you ask yourself how long you are going to feel gloomy with lack of enthusiastic and with lack of motivation. Do you find yourself waking every morning happy with full of energy. Do you feel that you are contributing with your unique talents and skills to service of man?
Are good intentions enough? Or do you actually need some talent?
Why do many decide to get with their current status even if it is unfulfilling? The reason might be because first of all they didn’t know how they found themselves their. It might be because it was the order of the day. Like what am getting here in Kenya people rushing to follow what is the hottest thing in town without any precaution. And sometimes you might have been forced by your parents to do and they think if they stop it their parents will be disappointed. What is the best thing to do? To follow your heart or stay there to impress someone.
Doing what your heart wants which is passion is the most intelligent choice you can make because you will never live in regrets for the rest of your life.
Many times when you don’t jump into the social conditioning bandwagon you will be taken as a person following failure in life. A friend of mine asked me one day why I was holding on to following my heart and yet I can easily get a job and start living a big life.
To him living big means getting a job even if a job is not full filling, you see I would not give an explanation what I was after, because all of us were reading from different scripts.
You might be misunderstood but that doesn’t matter. What matters is that you are following your heart desire. Am not saying you don’t listen to advices but make deliberate decisions which are in line which your purpose in life.

The courage to do things we think we cannot do in life.

2008-07-29T11:19:00.000-07:00

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
- Eleanor Roosevelt
What is it that you loved doing while, you were growing up. The other day I was watching my 4 year old son on his adventurous behavior in the house. It was very interesting for me to watch him, move around the house being Very enthusiastic and happy about anything.
Whatever he taught in the mind, he would make it happen immediately. Like now I watched him take the sofa set cushions and started building a house. Then he asked me daddy can you can and we sleep together in my house. You see me I know what is happening with him. In my mind I know this is not a house which he had built but he only playing.
Since I didn’t want to disappoint him, I would just accept reluctantly in order to play caring father attitude. But deep down in my heart I was asking myself, how is this kid seeing and imagining in his mind, is there a possibility that he is visualizing about the house or is something else.
Then intuitively I would think ok , the fact is we were created and empowered with creativity in our mind . this kid might be exercising creativity in his consciousness, so that whatever we can think of coming up it is possible that it will be manifested in our lives., in fact everything start with a thought . That is why this kid in his context. He has seen houses and in his mind would want to make one but unique according to his own caliber.
We are unique on our own.
I imagine if everyone would release his unique talents and skills and we stop living other people’s lives. Then this thing like competition and such like would not be experienced. We have this creation like competition existing because we have allowed it as a thought to dominate and everyone is accepting it as the truth but in essence is somebody who came up of with the idea of competition and sold to one another.
So when a child is born, he come full set to fulfill his innovation and creativity but as he grows and surrounded with people who have given up in life. We start teaching him our wrong philosophies and beliefs and since the mind absorbs anything, finally he ends up being like one of us. It is a rare case to find a kid who has grown up and start fighting against the beliefs he has been taught and he becomes on his own.
My journey.
I chose to be belief in myself since I was young and I will never want to be influenced by anyone at all. I would want to test something before I follow it and I will never follow something blindly at such. I don’t know how I came to find myself in that because mostly I have ever see many of my friend and those have associated with being influenced in one way or another. Am not boasting or trying to convince anyone that this is what happened because in some instance I have ever made a wrong choice which I came to regret later alone.
Accepting the price
What am trying to say is that, whatever decision had made, I had to be aware that am responsible for the outcome. For example I would take my studies serious against the wish of my peer group friends and the outcome was a benefited because I sailed and passed very well while in primary and also I didn’t choose to take my studies seriously while in secondary what happened is that I didn’t pass well. I chose to marry at a young age against the wish of my parent but what was the outcome, it is 3 years now since I married and am going strong. So what is the point here, being yourself doesn’t mean you are going to be right but it will give you an opportunity to exercise the choice we were given when created.
Paying your dues
When you know that it is you who made the decision you are not going to blame anyone but yourself. Consciously you are aware that I made this decision and have to live with it. When I made the decision to follow what am doing now which is blogging and writing and experiencing personal growth, many of my friends and even my wife never understood what kind of area I was venturing on to.
Because personal discovery is not common here in Africa and more sore where I come from Kenya. Personal development has been left to religion and it something practiced once a week, Saturday or Sunday depending on your religious affiliation and the day of worship. The decision I made is start I will pursue what my heart tells me and I will always try new things even if I fail. When I started blogging I didn’t know how to go about it, but I just began, right now the steps have gone I feel am growing. where I will be is unlimited.

How to be grateful about anything

2008-07-24T23:36:00.000-07:00

“Your thoughts are the tools with which you carve your life story on the substance of the universe. When you choose your thoughts, you choose results.”
Imelda Shanklin
We know that everything we put attention and emotional energy on, good or bad, will eventually show up in our lives. The universe, and our subconscious mind, don’t know good from bad, and they treat fear and enthusiasm exactly the
Same. If we’re putting energy on it, we’re placing an order for it.

Wallace Wattles say it connects us with the Source: “You cannot exercise much without gratitude because it is Gratitude that keeps you connected with power. The creative
Power within us makes us into the image of that to which we give our attention. The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best; therefore it will receive the best.”

Do you see what he is saying? If we are grateful about everything, we are focusing on what we want. It’s a way of making sure we are putting the highest possible positive energy on our desires, and withholding energy from the doubts and fears that we don’t want. For example I never knew that I should be grateful with what I have before I start attracting new things that I ever wished to have in my.

It’s important, then, to be putting positive energy on what we want, not negative energy (fear, worry) on what we don’t want. Gratitude is so important because it is a very high energy positive vibration of thought. It is powerfully attractive!

How sad do we live our lives wishing we had this and that, while you cannot be appreciative that you have whatever you have right now. How much time do we see someone wishing he had a car, and then he would be the happiest person on earth. And when you look at this person he is not being grateful that he has two legs which someone else somewhere doesn’t have. If you start being grateful with what you have, like the two legs we have talked about you will send positive towards which will enable you to detect means which you can use to get the car you wanted.

Most of the time I think the reason behind us not getting what we really is that we are not living according to the purpose we were meant to serve on earth, because if we really were serving according to our purpose for example if our purpose was to help people grow and be aware of themselves. You will be grateful that you have whatever its which is enabling to add value to human service and more opportunities will be opened for you to reach for more people because your service is needed somewhere and what happens you will automatically think of a car for faster movement.
Now let us be grateful with what we have which is helping us to fulfill our purpose on earth.

How we mistake goals to be our life purpose.

2008-07-24T01:50:00.001-07:00

“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what it is one’s destiny to do, And then do it.”
(Henry Ford)

Let us be honest, that discovering our purpose in life is a gradual growth thing rather than overnight thing. I have been ardent follower of purpose discovery industry in line with being successful in life for almost a decade now, misunderstanding and understanding.
Continuing discovering my purpose misunderstanding.
Indirectly here means, that my heart always followed this self-discovery because wherever I had someone was talking about how to make it in my life, I would love and also fall in love to listen to it which wanted to know my purpose in life. I felt that deep down my heart this is the thing I really wanted to hear. I don’t know about you? I always loved how human being behaved and how we can be of great help to one another. Later I found myself reading articles written about discovering your purpose in life, I would feel wow this is where I would want to be, but because of the peer influence at that time I never made any decision about it yet.
Starting discovering my purpose understandingly.
Later I started seeing that this might be my calling and slightly allowed myself to pursue it by reading self-help books. I would buy any book as long as it would have a clue about how to discover your purpose in life.

Many whom their books and articles I red would tell me you have to maintain a positive attitude follow you heart, must have something you love about, follow your passion and you will achieve your desire in life, all things made me happy and I would always want to read and hear about it more and more.
The journey

You will find me very enthusiastic about what I was doing and I will tell people, guys if we want success let us have passion in our lives, and this was the time I had my computer business. So I will tell people this is my call in life to work in the business industry and I was called to train people to know how to use a computer.

Even I went ahead and came up with a direct vision; I call it direct in quotes in that this is how it said “by this year, I will have a university of my own”. Because I thought that was my calling, and I will pursue it diligently.
Then one day I asked a question which changed my perception to life and this question was based on purpose of my life. And you see a purpose is something which you were born to do in life within the service of human being which is adding value to your fellow beings. I looked at what I was doing and asked is this my purpose or my goal. You see you must have a purpose and then have a vision which leads to you having goals as a means of achieving your purpose in life. For example if your purpose is to help people grow, you must have goals on how you are going to affect this purpose.

You might be a speaker whereby you can have programs sharing with people on the subjects you are called according to your purpose in life and it maybe your mission is to create awareness in them you can discuss them over the radion, televion, forums, create a websites, write a book or use other means to reach people.

If you focus and build your goal you can own systems to fulfill you purpose in life. Through that some of the side effects of using those goals will lead to you creating training centres, publishing industry and as we have said if your purpose is to help people grow, you might see a need that people must be in good health for them to grow and this leads you to create a health centre to provide people with free advice and materials or at a low cost through that you are adding value to people at the same time growing yourself.

What we don’t know is that once we discover our life purpose whatever we bring to the service of human being will be new and you can’t fear that so and so is going to copy me or duplicate my means. Why fear because the way you understand goals is inline with the talents and gifts you were given for the service and it will never be found in any one. I have come to understand that people who are jealousy and have fear in their lives only occur because they have not understood their mission on life.

So they work from fear based instead of love based because they take goals to be purpose in life. Let us pursue to know our purpose and once you have the knowledge that your have unique things in you. You will create goals which are in line with your purpose. You will always want to love your human being and want to use your talents and gifts and even skills to serve them.
As you go through life, you don’t just pick up things you like doing by chance. You discover what you’re good at because you were meant to discover it, just as you were meant to figure out what your fingers do, and how your elbows work.

Your unique gifts are hardwired into your system just as surely as your lungs are given their blueprint to breathe. And it’s from these specific talents and gifts that you’re able to define and determine your definite purpose … the reason why you’re here. What’s in you? Cannot be found in another living human being. In fact, it’s quite possible that what
You bring to the table hasn’t been duplicated – ever – since time began. That’s right.

Some people have purpose of making people happy and they can achieve this by creating entertainment industries etc. the point here is to discover what you are good at and would love to do and create a business around it as a means of reaching them through the goals. So let us differentiate between having a purpose and having goals in our lives. To me goals bridges to assist us reach for our purpose in life. And goals can change but a purpose will never change.

You are always free to change goals if the means is not congruent with your purpose. Once I recognized that purpose was to motivate people to be aware of themselves, I saw that I was spending so much of my time building a training business which was only a means of achieving my purpose in life, and there I had to stop putting much of my time there an find other means of reaching purpose. When listened some of the goals I can use. I discovered that I can create a blog free of charge and still out of it I can earn an income to continue serving my purpose, which finally will read to me launching a website. I also discovered another means which was publishing articles, writing a book, giving speeches, having seminars and workshops. Wherever you discover your purpose in life, the means of serving it will never miss and since the world is evolving the means are really increasing which can be exchanged with money.

Can we achieve financial freedom with what we have at hand?

2008-07-23T00:39:00.001-07:00

Before you embark on any path ask the question, does this path have a heart? If the answer is no, you will know it and then you must choose another path. The trouble is that nobody asks the question. And when a man finally realizes that he has taken a path without a heart the path is ready to kill him.- Carlos CastanedaFinancial freedom can only be achieved with what we have at hand, if we can manage our finances very well, we shall be mesmerized at how much money we spend to for unnecessary thing which doesn’t add value to our lives. Have we ever asked ourselves how much we spend buying something like sweet, that 5 shilling, imagine putting it somewhere like once a week, and how many weeks do we have per year, it is around 54 weeks or so. Simple math tells me 54 multiplied by 5 will make Kenyan shillings 260, this money will have made you create a very productive habit which will make you exit the rat race, which is in everyone.
Change our habits we shall create our beliefs
Many of us we are in the state we are today not because there is no money or flow of money but simply because of some habits we developed or inherited from our paents,friends,media or any other source, and this habits have led us to make them to be our beliefs. If we want to have a fulfilled life we don’t need to get a better job, earn a lot of money but change the way we do things which have led us to have a certain beliefs towards issues of life including health, money, career, etc.
Are these beliefs costing us?
Do you know because of certain beliefs we have towards health are costing us a lot of money inform of buying medicine and such. Start today and examine your life what is making you to have certain kind of diseases, I might not know but things like common cold which I normally see people going to chemist to buy medicine can be avoided by daily taking water and including vegetables in your meals. Cancer and other deadly diseases can easily be lowered by adopting a vegetarian meal, and when I mention of being a vegetarian many people will say, I stop eating meat are you crazy? Let me be crazy but ,it is not a must you eat meat, if its protein you want you can get form grain which cost less than the meat you are rushing for. I don’t want to attack your live but am only providing an alternative which can make us live a fulfilled life. If you see you are comfortable well keep up!.

The point I want to draw is that getting rich (rich here means, health, money, career, etc) is within your capability if you change your perception towards life, starting now.

What do you think? This “purpose” is a serious business

2008-07-21T23:33:00.000-07:00

“What at different story people would have to tell if they would adopt a definite purpose and stand by that purpose until it had time to become an all-consuming purpose.”
Napoleon Hill
Laws of Success

Today I trampled on an idea of having purpose in life rather than having none at all. I was reading an e-book,purpose,vision and goals by bob proctor and I was really inspired by his way he explained the subject of purpose, I got that the purpose is what we where meant to do on earth and always we will find ourselves doing whether we like or not because , all the time even if you are doing something which is taking you in the wrong direction still you will feel unhappy and unfulfilled and that led me to start to figure it in my life ,whether I have been leaning the ladder on the wrong wall all along.

One thing is that am being confident and having joy in my heart, am having a smooth relationship with my wife and the kid, am having joy doing the things that I love doing them purposely, oh it is wonderful to me now. Many of us go daily doing things which are not congruent with our purpose in life. We cannot discover our purpose in life with the same thinking we have now because it might have been programmed bad as you were growing up life.

It doesn’t matter how you think you arrived here on this planet or under whose direction the fact remains that each of us has specific talents and gifts that are uniquely coded within our own DNA. As you go through life, you don’t just pick up things you like doing by chance. You discover what you’re good at because you were meant to discover it, just as you were meant to figure out what your fingers do, and how your elbows work.

Your unique gifts are hardwired into your system just as surely as your lungs are given their blueprint to breathe. And it’s from these specific talents and gifts that you’re able to define and determine your definite purpose … the reason why you’re here. What’s in you? Cannot be found in another living human being. In fact, it’s quite possible that what
You bring to the table hasn’t been duplicated – ever – since time began. That’s right!

This “purpose” is serious business. If you fail to determine your definite purpose, everything else is wrong. It’s like working with a broken compass – you may think you’re going north, but you’re not. You’re not sure which direction you’re heading, so, you’re just wandering aimlessly. Without your purpose identified firmly in your mind, you will wander through life, never quite feeling that you’re “in the flow.” I say, then, that it’s imperative you recognize what it is you’re good at – what it is you really love to do.

Your purpose in this lifetime is to do the thing that you love. People will tell you they already know what they’re good at, and what they love to do most, but they’ll never earn
Money doing it. Whoever gave you THAT idea? When you’re sorting out your purpose, I don’t want you thinking about THAT non-issue at all. You can earn money at ANYTHING. Once you determine your general purpose and then have specific purpose in life ,which shall be the director of the general purpose in life. For example if you breakdown the general purpose into small specific purpose which will act as a guide, you shall have a purpose on the body which shall enable the body to function to the fullest, then specific purpose of the mind, heart and spirit.

The reason of having the specific purpose is that if you shall have the general purpose only .it will look vague and never make sense at all, but if you shall have specific purpose you shall know that you must purposely serve from all round meaning the body, mind, heart and spirit. In that if one is not serving you will always remain imbalance then miss having a fulfilled life.

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HOW CAN WE OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION?

2008-07-20T22:57:00.000-07:00

Procrastination is a disease preventing so many people around the world from achieving things they wanted in life. Procrastination is the habit of putting tasks to the last minutes hoping there will be time for you to finish, it has been a major problem in both our career and our personal life. We normally find ourselves feeling stressed, full of resentment and guilt and this will only be symptoms of procrastinating things in our lives.

The cause of procrastination can normally be attributed with the association we create to it such as the feeling pain by doing something or feeling unpleasantness to the task you want to do. To overcome this, I can suggest that you reward yourself after finishing a task,so that wherever you think of finishing a task you remember that I am going to buy myself lunch and you will feel motivated to continue rather than feeling like postponing to another hour or day.
Sometime I will suggest that you take a full day off each week with no work and this idea I got it from the creation in the Bible whereby, God rested the seventh day after creating the world, and you will feel recharged and eager to start the following week. You will feel motivated and less likely to procrastinate having guaranteed yourself a day off.
The way we look at tasks can make as feel to procrastinate for example, and if you think that something have to be done. The mind will take as something you are forced to do and would want to put if off until the later date. If you know something is pleasing and it is the one you want to do, you will not have the opportunity of feeling to procrastinate it, therefore let us think that whatever we are scheduled to do is something we want to do rather than must have to do.
There are other people who really feel that they must finish a task and normally cant even clearly see all the steps that will lead to completion, what happens is that you will feel overwhelmed with that idea of finishing, but if you think of moving a step per step you will be able to finish a task and wonder whether it was you. For example if you want to start a business, you plan and even see the way towards it but cannot understand how you will get customers will make you want to procrastinate a lot, because you don’t want to fail and feeling failure will make one to procrastinate a lot.

If you just kick off in a small way maybe like creating a website which can’t cost you anything to make rather than registering a domain. Before long you would learnt a lot compared to a person who is waiting for condition to be favorable then begin. I hope we have learnt some ideas on how to overcome procrastination.

How to embrace progressively your new career you love and let go

2008-07-20T09:24:00.000-07:00

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.
- Dale Carnegie our
“Enlarge the place of your tent, stretch your tent curtains wide, do not hold back, lengthen your cords and strengthen your stakes (Isaiah 54:2 NIV)
As you progress through your true purpose in life, you may begin to feel disconnected between your current life situation and the one you envision moving towards. These two worlds may seem so different to you that you cannot mentally conceive of how to build a bridge between them. How can you balance the practical reality of taking care of your obligations like earning money to pay your bills, pleasing your boss, raising your family, and maintaining social relationships with people who can't appreciate what you're undergoing and the direction want to move towards? New fears may crop up related to this seemingly impossible shift. How will you support yourself? What will become of your relationships? Are you just deluding yourself?
What shall you do now the point is just Focus instead on independently beginning the process of manifesting the new found direction leading to your new vision and start from scratch as is it is a child who has been born? For example, suppose you currently work as a teacher of a high school and your courage tells you that you don’t find fulfillment and maybe you will eventually give up the work, and seeing yourself passionately preaching to inmates in a cell.
But you can’t fathom yourself as a teacher trying to preach to the prisoners and on top of that you can’t see yourself making a decent living in this new career, at least not quickly. There’s a big gap between this new vision and practical reality. So what do you do? My advice is that instead of trying to fill this gap, just start building your new vision completely from scratch in whatever time you have, even if it’s only 30 minutes a week. Keep doing your teaching career in high school, but in your spare time, go and preach in the prisons. Use your teaching techniques and skills you developed as high school teacher to begins speaking to inmates even if 5 to 10 of them per week in your 30 minutes. Make free handouts and literatures to be supplied to the prisons giving a world of encouragement. Don’t hide that you are a high school teacher, live passionately and continue developing the new you for a while.
Eventually what will happen is that once you have developed a skill in your new career and be able to support yourself from it, which you didn’t see at first. Just know that even the skill of teaching high school you didn’t master in one day, you had to get training, but at that time you were attracted to it for a wrong reason. But here you are full of passion and have something that you want to do that you will enjoy doing it.
Once the time has come that you feel you have mastered the courage and skill, you can peacefully let go your old career and focus your energy on the new one. Your passion for your new work will entually overwhelms your fear of letting go of your old source of anchorage. So instead of trying do had to change immediately into your new career, just start the process of changing progressively as you led go off the old one. Even if is just 2 minutes everyday it will eventually make a difference and eventually fills up most of your days. The most important thing is to start introducing it in your life right now even if initially you can do it in a small way.
No matter how difficult it may seem, make the choice to move courageously and don’t allow fear in you block from moving ahead. Dare to live to your dreams in you. Venture to the unknown zone and will enjoy that desires of the heart. Don’t die without embracing the daring adventure your life is meant to be. You may go broke. Failure and eve being rejected can meet you as you progress. Your relationship may go down but all are indicators that you are moving ahead. So go ahead and feel the fear, summon the courage to follow your dreams anyway.

Can you discover your life purpose and live your life to the fullest

2008-07-18T00:57:00.000-07:00

“When you were born you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a way that when you die the world will cry as you rejoice”
Indian proverb
The question of having a purpose in life has created a great debate around the world, some saying you need to have a purpose while other disagreeing with it, but the point is that it is a personal choice to have a purpose or not. But is there any benefit you shall have when you shall a purpose or stay with none. as per now I will stand by saying that it is better to have a purpose in life than having as I said earlier it is personal choice and even now if don’t agree with me it is also a personal choice which you have.

So to begin with, life purpose has been given different definitions and understandings depending on one’s context, but for the sake of explaining my point here let me give you my definition on how I understand the life purpose and from there you can create yours too to direct you life.
My definition
Life purpose is what you must do and can passionately to provide contribution to human service. And here we need to understand that we were meant to be here to solve a problem and therefore nobody is here by accident and that is the reason why we are different form one another with unique t talents and skills so that we can bring happiness to one another in pursued for growth. So our life purposes must centre in this great theme of service, what we do must be in line with service which adding value to one another.

To drive the point home for example once you discover your life purpose let say you are there to help your self grow and help others to grow which is a life purpose you were created to do on earth, as your purpose. if you look the statement above it appear an appealing and unfulfilling, we need to go down and see how can we make it appealing and have an impact in our lives. Then we need to break it down into simple and achievable steps enabling us to have a sense of meaning into our lives which is our purpose, using the analogy of finding a destination in the world.

Let us say you staying in New York city in USA and want trace Nairobi, Kenya in Africa to visit there as a tourist. And from the heart you are convicted that you want to visit, you need to take action now, maybe go to the internet and search for the place, ask friends who have already visited the place for the direction or look at the directory, there are so many ways to find the direction. Then after knowing the place you must sit down and plan how to get Nairobi, Kenya:
• You have to budget, (financial status)
• know the whether condition of the place
• what kind of clothes to carry to the place,
• What kind of people will you find there when you reach there. This and many other planning you can make.

Life purpose discovery
Going back to our life discovery is that you have to plan and see what are the things you have that can enable you realize this purpose in life, you have the body, mind, heart, and the spirit. These are the tools to propel you to live your purpose in life.
The body
The body is the physical elements which assist you get your life purpose, you have the eyes,ear,nose ,the hand which enable you to fulfill the five senses of human being we have, the sense of touch,smell,hearing,taste and sight, and learn how to use them to develop you body to discover life purpose and since you use the physical body you need to eat in order to have energy to realize your purpose and survive, so money here is essential as a means to get some things in life.
Mind
Second you the mind and is the place where talents and skills are inhabited, each and every individual has talents and skills, some in born and others can be developed and learned, for example if your purpose t is to help people grow and you need to interact with them maybe by giving a speech and you don’t have a skill of giving a speech, you can develop it and master it to the level of competence.
Heart
The third aspect is what is that you want to do meaning what is your desire, what is it you are passionate about in that even if you do it freely, you don’t regret but would look forward to doing it for example once I discovered that I was passionate about motivating people and whichever place I will find myself I was talking about the human potential and capability and I will leave many challenged and that time I was unconscious about it and yet I was fulfilling my purpose because I would talk continuously for 24 hours for the topic without wearing down or feeling unmotivated. To you what are you passionate about and can do 24hrs clock.
Spirit
The fourth aspect is what you should do with the passion you have now, to entertain yourself or to add value to the human service. The world is waiting for you to contribute; it needs your service, why do you want to die with the music in the heart. Do you have something which you are passionate about and want to contribute, come out boldy, nobody is like you and the difference you shall have will not match anyone except you alone.

When I found out I was passionate about sharing and motivating people on their potential, I didn’t look at myself that maybe I come from a Africa a continent which is regarded to be underdeveloped and so on. Or I am young at age, I just said I will start with what I had as I develop my skills along to reach many people in the world,

Right now am only having a blog hosted by a blogger but as I move by am having a fully website detailed with unique product which has never been found anywhere in any website because I know am unique. Now what is stopping you, discover you life purpose and start living consciously on earth.

SUCCESS IS AN EXPERIENCE

2008-07-16T03:53:00.000-07:00

">Every adversity, every unpleasant experience, every failure, carries with it the seed of an equivalent
My personal growth has really taken a new twist since I started learning to do what I love dong am attracting new things in my life, it is not a easy journey but its far rewarding than what I was doing before, right now am more focused to my goals than I was before, I can clearly look towards the next day than when I didn’t care about myself.

It’s so easy for us to fall into the pattern of working really hard on goals that we picked up through social conditioning but never really consciously chose. However, when we work on such goals, we often hit nothing but roadblocks until we figure out what it is we truly want.

One thing have noticed is that the more I become conscious the easy, am able to look back and say wow, is this how I have been thinking, elevating our thoughts should be progressively pursued if we can be able to solve problem which might look big right now as it is being said do what you love and everything else shall follow, it is just clear and to the point, because the thoughts you have are the one creating the reality you are seeing and if you want to see synchronicities being manifested in your life guard the thoughts you projects outwards.

Before then I used to think that, everyone who am meeting should be responsible of what am encountering right now, so I would go walking telling people of what am able to do, what have achieved in my life, my projects which were pilling to be accomplished, not knowing that I was only projecting my thoughts to the which at long last we come back to me either way and instead of helping them to see that they are capable, I would only create in congruencies which will bring disharmony and we would not go along with people.

Consequences of mixing friendship with business story
There is man I hired when I was having my computer training business, we used to be friends back the time I was in college, he was taking theology and I was taking a degree in network communication systems for a short period before I dropped out, back then I loved being a Christian, I was born a seventh day Adventist family, and accepted the belief of the church, so sometimes I would participate in lay preaching even though I was not trained in that.
So I left this guy to continue with education because him he had sponsorship,so me I have no option because my uncle who was paying for my school fees stopped and instead employed me in his computer school to assist him for a while before he threw me out, for me to have nothing and that is when I started the training business with the little experience I had because that was my mode of reality, I never figured out to start anything more than that.
I was with this business for three years, married while with the business and because my wife got a Job in a different city far from where we were, it became difficult for me to operate, so I had to figure out whether to close the business and relocate or to employ a manager and delegate duties to him. After discussing with my wife we concluded the latter is ok. So this guys was here and I felt is an opportunity for me to not only create a job but to give him experience since he was fresh from college after finishing his masters in international business development.
In my mind I was clean and my motives were ok, but never that this guys despite of him being a minister had bad motives to take over my business, when I was a way he would tell everyone that he has opened business and now want to make money and even started tampering with college documentation but thank I stepped in faster and realized that what I was doing there was no systems in place. I was just shared my business ideas which someone would pick them and use them has his.
Lessons learnt
Right now when I look back then I see I have really grown in my experience and my path of entrepreneur lesions. If I would have not accommodated this guy to my business I would have not learnt the lesson I got. ‘Every adversity, every unpleasant experience, every failure, carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit’. Nothing comes inform of failure that appear like a stumbling block but in it carries a great benefit it. This enabled me and helped me when I launched my personal development business in did not choose to follow social conditioning but follow my heart, and what I love doing as long as it adds value to me and fellow human being that was what I really wanted to do in life. My life has new percepectives, am more confident now, more happy, new friends are coming to my life who are happy and focused.

Now have learnt that just concentrate on working on your self and creating awareness in yourself and others, later I stopped continuing working on the training business which I felt was not congruent with my strengths and instead work on something which I loved working and which I was doing as part time in my free time, and said what if I take this things I love doing and make them full time and money and other things shall take care of themselves, am almost 12 months down the road since I took it on a full time basis and 4 month since I launched this blog, but even if I doesn’t earn me money as long as I continue providing value I will continue giving free services to other people.

Can those people whom are close to us appreciate our effort of personal growth?

2008-07-14T05:35:00.000-07:00

I woke up today feeling so low, because yesterday which was a Sunday, we had a misunderstanding with my wife, the maid (house girl) had used the things she had bought and since the maid was not there, she started to cry and I called her so that we can discuss the matter, instead she ignored despite me sending for her through our son. Then she came, I didn’t like the way she made her decision because she said that, since the maid used the food, then from today onwards we shall eat,sukuma wiki (kale) for a whole week, this didn’t go down well with me, because I felt she should have consulted us me and our son before making any decision.
Instead of seeing it positively from her side, maybe I didn’t communicate clearly, she started talking harshly and I felt I should also tell her it was wrong, readers what I learnt from this experience is that we are creatively on our own, she attacked my personal growth and even told me that what I was reading and pursuing is useless ,there ,then I felt like chasing after the wind because and this incidence made me to feel that were not really together with my wife, even if you are miraculously joined together, my opinion is that you are joined to procreate and not emotionally.
I have been sharing with her about all my plans inclusive personal development but those revelations don’t go down well with her because the way she reacted in this situation really scared me and she seemed not to be appreciative. This is my renew resolution and lesions from this experience.
• I will tread carefully about my relationship, and this is how my life will be. I will never tell her or any other person until the see the changes in my life, my life is my own, I know where I am coming from and where am going, it is easy to feel to share but see weigh what you are sharing to anyone even the person you are staying with and sleeping in the same bed, the support will only come when they see the result.
• I will just continue appreciating her or anyone’s achievement but reserve my comments, what I have come to learn is that people will never like to be given a second opinion of certain thoughts they have. I will commit myself to share with her my love, intimacy but when it comes to dreams it is a personal growth and commitment and I think that is why we have salvation being personal you will never go with anyone in heaven, salvation to me in this sense is the revelation you continue getting from universe(God)as you move by.
• Instead of sharing with an individual, I will write an article about my discovery to the universe and post it in the internet and am sure there is someone somewhere who will be interested with what I am doing now. My wife cant understand, my friends cannot fathom, and when I happen to meet them is to share their life achievements and struggles and only listen to them but not comment anything,
• I want slowly to start making friends online, because it is a place where the whole world has been reduced to a small world and getting someone whom you share dreams and goals is easy. The universe cannot give you something you have not asked for.

HOW TO EXERCISE YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE.

2008-07-11T03:36:00.000-07:00

I was listening to an audio talk by Anthony Robbins, “exercising your passion”, interesting many of us are not living according to our purpose, of what we were meant to be on earth, do we ever pose from what we are pursuing once in a while and ask whether it is us who we really are or we have lost a sense of direction, purpose is something once you start doing it you feel energized despite shortcomings.

I remember when I was young how innovative I was, nothing would block my way without coming up with an innovative way to go past it, I would feel always wanting to discover new things in my life, until I reached my teen years where I started following the bandwagon of the so called peer pressure, copy everything I found in place, talk like everyone and even dress and eat like everyone so that I can be in place. But one thing which assisted me was always to want learn new things either form listening the radio, watching TV or reading books because this was an habit I had developed while you, I would want find myself reading something even when travelling, waitng in the bus stop, despite me falling back I never ceased asking myself what new thing have I learn.

The bandwagon thought me on how to be a mediocre and never do anything but just wait things to happen, I was told if it was predestined to be what you will be there and it will happen nothing you can do but be contended with what you are including mediocre, gosh! It is a very interesting situation to be in and I know once in while we find ourselves there and many get stuck and accept it as there destiny.

Oh no, even I attended the church hoping things to be different but I found scripture manipulated to suit the current comfort zone we were with many saying a great a men to agreement that it is normal way. God want us to turn our live to Him actively and not passively and you want a miracle to happen to you with the current state you are and don’t think it can happen, but it will happen to diligent seekers which is echoed by the same Quotes from the bible.

I listened to be my same comfort Zoners and we comforted ourselves that things will be ok one day without realizing that this one day is can only be started now with small steps, for example if you want to be a millionaire one day start now shifting your mind doing thing which millionaires does and not limit yourself with what scarcity minds are doing. Progressively I told myself if I want to achieve the desire of my heart I have to stop living mediocre live and start living life full of abundance, a miracle would not just happen, but I will create a miracle as I move by

So the first thing was to drop my friends who we were comforting ourselves with and replace them with new friends, who would challenge my mind and make it to stretch,
I had to start saving even if I started with 10 Kenyan shilling progressively I would learn the habit of saving, before I thought saving was meant not only for the rain seasons meaning you save for the future but one thing I have learn in my experimenting is that if you adopt the saving culture it will maintain your feel good which is a state where you mind is able to think properly and have happiness for the law of attraction to manifest itself in our lives.

How to change the mode of reality you currently have and get the result you have been admiring

2008-07-08T05:12:00.000-07:00

I woke up at 5.25am feeling tired because yesterday I did a lot of mental work, I escorted my wife to job then I went round in my usual exercising while listening to a personal development talk, I listened to the subject of beliefs and what I found out was very interesting because it touched my past mode of reality and the impact it had presently. So while listening I would see exactly why I was not getting the kind of life I had wanted all the time I had to figure out whether to continue with the same thinking or drop it.

So my new discovery seemed to be more helpful because once you think of accomplishing something just send an intention to the universe and leave it to manifest by itself because if you start thinking the process instead of the end results you will be discouraged and maybe abandon pursuing it altogether, so what is best thing one should do in order to avoid this kind of outcome, the most direct way is to send the signal and remain calm doing our daily tasks which are congruent with the goals you have set in place.

Personal example is that I developed an habit which nearly was not taking me anywhere, in my first business of computer training, I had developed a habit of giving my client any answer even the one I didn’t know at but I will pretend I knew it, why deep down my heart I had fear of not getting business because I thought if I said I don’t know maybe the customer would not give me a business, am not saying is bad in general but for me it was not congruent with my values.
I had to figure out whether this was me who was doing it, then make the most effective decision in myself and to the best of my personal growth I had to drop the habit I had developed and pick the one I felt was leading me to greater personal growth, I knew it would be costly and take a longtime but it was the best I would see that would be beneficial to me, so slowly I started giving a direct answer to the question asked for example if a customer wanted me to admit his or her with low grade, I had multiple solutions to this question of the client, can you admit me?
• I would say yes directly
• I would say no and immediately state the reason behind it
• I would hold the application fee and maybe try to think whether to admit the person

And mostly before I would pick the last solution which was to take the admission fee and start telling him come tomorrow, next week until I would finally not able to admit him or her because the grade were too low and are not to the standard set by the county ministry of education and if you would hold many promises to a large number of people many of us knows that a promise is debt and the other party would start to demand quickly for the solution and at the end of the day you don’t come to terms.

I don’t know whether many of the readers you are experiencing the same circumstances but today I don’t retaliate giving you an answer if I don’t know I tell you there and then and if it is something which I need to search and bring you an answer I don’t promise you it will be possible but you have to prepare for either yes or no, how you would take it is up to you but my heart must remain clean for personal growth

LIFE IS FULL OF CHOICES AND ITS UPTO YOU TO MAKE A BETTER CHOICE

2008-06-24T05:10:00.000-07:00

Life is full of choices. What life should I choose? Where should I live? Should I remain in an unhappy marriage? These are all major life-changing decisions. Sometimes it’s a challenge to us and it can be very had for us to come up with tangible solutions in our lives. You can certainly choose to make them haphazardly and without careful consideration, but you’ll be the one who has to live with the consequences. If you don’t think creatively to come up with long lasting answers life will be in turmoil and we shall forever live in regrets.
For example you might be not in good terms with your wife and feel that I need a divorce, and probably might want to start looking at the problem from multiple perspective to search for a answers and maybe some of the suggested answers you might come up with and write them down;
• I should seek for a divorce immediately
• I should seek for a counselor to help us
• I should just keep quite maybe things might be ok one day
• Should open up and we discuss the matter together and maybe we might come up with a long-term solutions.
While even writing them can’t overcome the major limitations of our conscious minds to systematically consider solution spaces with millions of possibilities, writing things through is at least a step in the right direction. We still have to delegate a major part of our decision-making to our subconscious minds,
I am amazed by the fact that the more of this process we can pull into our conscious minds (by using either paper or a computer screen as an extension of our consciousness), the more clarity and focus we gain in knowing that our decisions are the right ones. And in the long run, after years of exercising the mental discipline to make more conscious decisions, we reap the harvest of far greater results.

For us to live consciously we need to serve others

2008-06-12T04:19:00.000-07:00

Is it possible for one to attract new things in life i.e. new friends, environment, job, status and so on? This remains at a personal level depending on what perspective we are looking it from, if you believe that it is possible, definitely it will be possible but if your belief system tells you that it is not possible, definitely it will not be possible and you will never experience anything new in your life, and the time to come if you believe it is there. Can we be able to challenge our belief systems to explore new horizons and opportunities, can we challenge what we were taught that you go to school and then find a good job, or can you think of an alternative and challenge this belief that you finish school and maybe start you own business,

Therefore, challenging our beliefs remains a personal choice and nobody can change anyone to be what he can be and it is up to the person to decide what to take and not to take but we must be ready to challenge and venture to new things if we want successful life remember there is no universal manual created to tell us what to follow but everything can be found through trial ad error and if it works you follow it and maybe next time you face the same challenge you able to solve it. This also calls for those one whom we fear failure; failing is not the opposite of success but part of success because you have learnt something which does not work.

For us to live consciously we need to serve others and ourselves in the highest good of all. When we step into a new arena of starting a business, that is challenging our current reality and trying to lift up our thought to a new level and sometimes you will feel uncomfortable because you are not used to that but if you persist and endure you will finally get used to that and start enjoying again as if it is normal.
A personal example is when I challenged my thought which I had been conditioned that children who are born out of wedlock cannot be accepted in the society and are meant to be doomed and in really this belief had been manifested because where I come from I had seen children who never had fathers, living hopeless and in pity wanting to be sympathized with everyone and for me I saw as stupid because where is it written and destined that if you find yourself in that condition you will never make. I called it nonsense and I pursued what I felt should be done and I knew I was the one responsible for my thought and actions and thoughts and should never be manipulated by some people‘s created reality meant to benefit and scare others on earth.

Once I challenged them I found out we all have the same chance and opportunity to succeed, given an opportunity like now I want to tell everyone who might be experiencing some thing of that sort somewhere, I want to tell stand out and move it is your time now and if I made it you can also make it.

HOW CAN YOU SOLVE THE PROBLEM YOU ARE FACING CURRENTLY USING THE ANALOGY OF MARRIAGE

2008-06-05T04:09:00.000-07:00

It’s common to all of us that we have faced or are facing some difficult problems in our life and sometimes fail to decide what solutions do you go for either to surrender or to pursue the matter ahead. For example you are in an abusive relationship whereby your spouse doesn’t care about you, the love between you has grown cold, you no longer feel wanted and you don’t know what to do next, below is some of the suggestion you will get.
TO WALK OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP
This is a suggestion I have mostly read all over which many people can apply, and it depends on what perspective you are looking it from, fore example if both of you have had kid together maybe you might decide to leave him the kids or take them, and also you are ready to carry on the burden you are alone, why do I say so. Many people are not able to see the positive contribution of the other person until the individual demise from their lives then we start realizing his/her goodness once the gap is created.
So are you ready to fill the gap being created by the other individual, and remember in this earth we are unique and different, so if that will be the answer go ahead. Some people will say I will hook up with a different person but how sure you with the other person. Since its us who create our world don’t you know that you will also send the negative energy to the other person and start attracting what you had experienced before? From above we can say that walking out of the relationship is an individual decision after weighing the consequences then one can come up with the best solution to the question.
REMAIN IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND PRAY FOR THE BEST
This is a suggestion which is adopted by many who already don’t have an alternative, maybe they had run away from home to get married, they looked at the man and so that he was the best man to marry, the were attracted by the money this man or woman had and fear if they run away they will miss them and decide just to stay, some will fear what the friends will say because they had told them that they are married and so on.
So what will happen if you decide to stay on and do nothing, maybe like other places in the world you are bitten all the time and you just continue condoning the blows. In this case we an say that if you continue praying for the best and doing nothing maybe you will be hurt ,or die or something bad happen to you. And many people will just say keep on keeping on, maybe one day he/she might change be better,
but let s say that waiting for the other person to change is a waste of time and you are only be hurting yourself, since we are the creator of our lives we must be ready to
change for the other person to get attracted to what we are having when I married I taught my wife was the best I got, since I had not learnt the secret of knowing who I was,
I just wanted to change her to fit what I wanted, I found difficult and many problems propped up I didn’t what I should have done.
Then I said try reading marriage counseling books then apply what I leant but I was just doing nothing because the problem was not with my wife but I was the problem, so I said let me now start changing the way I see things maybe I own the problems instead of seeing my wife that she has a problem, I just accept that I have a problem, then slowly things started changing to be better and found that I had the medicine to the problem which was happening to us, am not saying that you are the one who create the problem but if each one is able to own up his/her dark side then will shall attract what is better and life will be better more,
CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE THINGS AND START COMMUNICATING YOUR FEELING
Many people we have a problem because we create pictures in our minds and start acting exactly as you made it without realizing that we have only made it ourselves. For example you might hear a conversation while talking with your friends at work that nowadays husbands are no faithful or nowadays wives are not faithful, if we don’t look after them we might loose them or they might cheat on us. then on the way home you keep on thinking about the conversation you had at work then a picture is created from nowhere about how you husband has cheated on you or wife is seeing someone else, immediately fear clop up then you feel resentment and then keep on thinking and since you don’t want to communicate you feel you should keep it to yourself and maybe wait for evidence then ask and here we don’t realize that our mind cannot comprehend what is real and what is false immediately it says your wish is my command I will give what you ask for.
then a situation s created whereby a friend of your husband who is a lady calls all of sudden from nowhere maybe the husband didn’t lock the office that day, and it happens you were near the phone ad in this case she is using her phone and not office phone to pass the information and you know what at work we have people who joke sometimes, maybe there are names they have given themselves then immediately somebody picks the phone she says from the other side hello “ honey” and this case a joke.
Don’t you seeing you have got the evidence you wanted and immediately your thought becomes a living and is manifested to what you wanted. Maybe what if once the thought came while coming home or you had the conversation and instead of remaining it to yourself you came straight to your husband or wife and shared what you had being said is happening and maybe who know you would have saved the whole situation and would have not caused what you finally got.
Do we all agree that what we are experiencing is caused by us and we are fully responsible, the decision is ours we can decide to walk away, remain and nothing or change our thoughts and communicate what is in our hearts.

Sex is an art then an act

2008-06-04T00:58:00.000-07:00

AN ARTCILE BY WIFE CHRISTINE
Remember the first time you saw the man or woman you thought you loved, then the person proposed to you maybe as a lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, whichever way, you must have felt your heart skip a bit.
Remember the first time you kissed or you looked at each other in a loving way, as in can we have each other, the romance and then SEX. It didn’t just happen believe me it is NEVER a surprise; you conceive it in your thoughts and only fulfill it as an act. Therefore couples lets be realistic about the whole sex issue. It is not just an act as you watch it in pornographic movies or even other romantic movies, It’s actually a thought made to action.

You see realistically speaking, many couples get to a point where they can not even stand one another in bed, and this may lead to separation and even divorce in married couples. But then lets look at it from another view, you loved your partner didn’t you; you even imagined how he/she would feel like in bed didn’t you, then what exactly happened few weeks or months down the line when you start eyeing or imagining the guy next door eyeing his muscles and imagining how big he could be and how you will scream if he ever took you to bed. Yet at that same time your partner is busy caressing you wanting you soo badly. Hey YOU! Stop there and think, sex is an Art not an ACT, if it is an act to you as a woman it is so painful and even boring you wish the guy on top would be through so that you can do other things. Other women prefer masturbating at this point in time because you can have a variety of men I your mind as you are doing it.

Sex is meant to bring ecstasy to both partners at all times. It should never be a burden Girls. Listen, to enjoy sex you have to stop multi-tasking at that point in time and enjoy just that. Don’t wait for your partner to put you in the mood it all starts with you, if you wait for your partner then at times they just cant get you in that right mood. You know what is in your mind at all times and it is only you who can control your mind. Take a few minutes or even hours maybe as you are driving home or shopping put yourself in the sex mood not thinking of someone else, but think of your partner and how he/she brings so much pleasure to you. It works miracles because as you think of them you even feel them and will want them there and then, you cant wait to hold them in you arms. Send sex and love messages to your partner throughout the day, that’s another way of putting you in the mood or even call your partner and don’t talk of the kids or work don’t even nag, just say something sexual and let that be the nature of conversation until you cut the phone. Believe me you, your sex life with your partner will be much better and you will not imagine anyone else having this kind of joy.

DONTS
Do not discuss your marital problems with friends and relatives unless it’s a professional marriage counselor
D not fight when going to bed. Keep your fights out of the bedroom look for another private room to fight let your bedroom be a LOVE room

SIMPLE MIND PROMISED YOU A MIRACLE

2008-06-04T00:55:00.000-07:00

On 1st June I attended a real AFRICA WEDDING for one of my friends called Pastor Clifford Ratemo, Held in Kisii, I was real touched by what I saw there. We guys who had come from the urban arrears came to embrace the fact that the real change in the African culture is taking place. According to the kisii tradition you can’t enter in the bride’s place without carrying a sufuria ad blanket for the mother-in-law to be and the suit for the father-in-law to be. After giving the necessary we were allowed to enter the compound and wait to take the bride afterwards we headed to the church for the ceremony.

Guys as we were sitting watching the event unfolding, a certain Mzee commented about the comparison between the time he grew up and the way WEDDING where done and the time now and immediately something clicked my mind about the whole thing. Does it mean we should live in the past, the present or the future and don’t give me your views according to what you know but allow me to express myself because its happening all over the world and we cant assume it anyway.
First we should live the present why do I say so ,its because if we live consciously on what is happening and change the things at hand we are very sure that the future will be bright and forget of what happened in the past. What happens to us human beings including myself is that we try to live the past and wanting to change it for the better and we spend much of out time trying, tryng an trying whereby we waste most of our time in it and miss the opportunity to change our thoughts which is the engine of our lives in this world.
Many of us keep on thinking about what happened in the past, the broken relationship, the debts you have incurred from the past, the failed business you have ever attempted, the failing you ever had in school and I have come to realize that because of concentrating too much in the past we don’t have that enthusiasm of moving out and seizing opportunities which are waiting for you and keep on dwelling in the past negative thoughts ad through the LAW OF ATTRACTION we have attracted negative things which we don’t want in our lives like lack of money, broken relationship and many

The emotions we charge will determine if we shall achieve anything or not. Like now I come from Africa and all those who know Africa, it’s a continent full of resources and if there is a place in the world where whether you work or not but you must eat in Africa. The nature provides free resources to everyone but the irony is that it is the poorest continent we have and what is the reason behind it is because of the attitude we have towards life. Because everywhere you go you find very potential men and woman just sitting discussing people and if not people they are discussing events in the society. I don’t know about other areas but a place like the United States and other first world countries what is shaping those places is the thoughts they have towards life. For us to have the life want, we must starting changing our thoughts and living consciously and shall have anything we desire n this life

DISTURBING PROBLEMS CAN BE SOLVED THIS WAY.

2008-06-03T03:20:00.000-07:00

DISTURBING PROBLEMS CAN BE SOLVED THIS WAY.
Why is it that we always wake up with negative thoughts inclined to bad experiences we are undergoing and maybe you have debts you want to pay, you have bills at the corner which you don’t have money to pay, your spouse is giving you hell of time and feel like walking out of the relationship, you have a fiancé whom things are not working out and feel like you are cheated and don’t know what to do. These and other several experiences happens to all of us on a daily basis and we would like to know how can we be able to solve them and feel good about it, we try to consult those people who are near us like our peer friends, relatives, confidants and even those in authority maybe they might have an answer to the disturbing thoughts and experiences but I want us to give ourselves hope that we are sitting with the answers the people we are consulting can only give us their experiences and how they are able to solve the problem according to their perception and not necessarily that we are experiencing the same but we can only relate and come up with a conclusion to our problem by justifying but not forgetting that we have been pointed to the real answer which is lying just in us, simply because we have not learnt how to solve it we keep on sharing hoping that is the way we can be able to get the answer we need to our problem.
Take an example of a person who was never told that at the doorstep there is some money which was buried long time ago by someone and if you dig ad find it you can become rich instantly, since the person will be waking up everyday and just pass the door and leave to their daily work and maybe come back empty handed and sometimes sleep hungry can easily die with hunger because he/she is ignorant that their is money at the door. So how can he be able to know that money is buried at the door? These are some suggestions
Suggestion 1.
H/she will want to think and move from the current place where he is staying and on the process of demolishing the house they might land on the hidden treasure and immediately become rich and this only happen if you think and just act ad never know what you will get and its called trial and error. Many people have discovered answers to their problems when they have been pushed to the corner and the only thing to do is by trying a new thing after you exhaust what you had before and this can be seen as moving from the current house you are staying and in the process of moving step on the hidden treasure.
Suggestion 2.
At the leisure time will try maybe keep himself busy by reading past literature materials as a way of keeping one occupied, do we get the point here .just doing something ad not necessary trying to look for something but just doing it and at the end of the day you will have found a solution to a disturbing problem in life and this has rich history on how many individuals who are rich now were just keeping themselves by doing nothing important but only doing it and finally discovered a treasure which has civilized the world, read bill gates of Microsoft, read about the Google founders and all what you will find is that they where keeping themselves busy and in the process discovered something.
And therefore from the above suggestions on how to solve the disturbing problems in our lives you can find that, all we need is to try on ourselves to look for answers and you will find that they are buried at the doorstep of your heart and you are only passing them to go and look for them somewhere else very far because of our ignorance and we can only be able to find answer once we discover we are! Read how you can solve problems using the inner miracles within us at my blog hesbonyambane.com
I have discovered many solutions to the problems by just curiously trying alternative solutions to the problems and discovered they were the real answer, whether health, finance, relationship and such like. I started while young and have been doing it unaware, until I discovered that was my passion. I spend most of my time talking and advising people to know that they have answers to their problems and all is free of charge and if you find the advise helpful. Email me at hesbon2007@gmail.com or send a thank you note, check or money order payable to
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HOW TO SOLVE DIFFICULT PROBLEMS USING A CHILD’S MIND

2008-05-29T22:52:00.000-07:00

HOW TO SOLVE DIFFICULT PROBLEMS USING A CHILD’S MIND
Life can be stressing sometimes as we so journey this world, you will always find yourself without money, debts to pay, bills knocking at the door and this is the time you feel like I want to die and leave this world, but can this be the solutions. I found myself in this situation and I wouldn’t do anything until I figured it creatively, and every bad situation can be resolved through creative thinking and that is why you need to relax because worrying will not enable you think creatively. I had started the journey of personal development and have been reading inspiration and motivational materials and each would give me solutions on what I need to do when I am faced with certain situations like that, all I found were right and it would work for you tailor made it to fit your current situation and sometimes I wonder did many how of those guys ever faced what I am facing right now ,am very sure that many people have had the same experience as mine and am sure you have had different reactions to the same situations differently. Let me share with you what I did when I faced the situations.
I SAT DOWN
I did this in order to reflect back and look at the situation creatively to see what the solutions are. I didn’t want to follow up what I read in the book or listen to the tapes because what I would get would not necessarily work for me, but remember all of us are unique and different
I RECALLED HOW I SOLVED PROBLEMS WHEN I WAS YOUNG
Guys what I have come to appreciate is that the best time when we are of ourselves is the time we were young .we would do anything we thought about, you would laugh the whole day, you would play the whole day, you do anytng which would come to you mind and be sure nothing would stop you from getting it. And wherever you faced a problem you would come up with a creative answer and always solve a problem. For example I once while young faced with a very difficult situation whereby my mum was not able to buy me a Toy car like my neighbor children and so instead of pitying myself I quickly thought of making similar one using locally available materials like using old used metals, wires which I would collect from a dust bin and I would sit down immediately and work out to make a car because here once I was able to solve a problem of worrying because I kept myself busy and second I was feeling myself having the same car like my other children even though it was handmade and I always felt like other children felt and at the end of the day there I was happy like other children and it was exactly like the other children cars, so we can also apply the same principle while we have grown so that instead of feeling sorry about not affording something, you can creatively gather locally available materials and solve the problem i.e. if you have not afforded a new car, why trouble yourself while you can put the same feelings like those who have, just turn the chair in your sitting room to be a car and see yourself driving it on a daily, because it will make you act as if you already posses it and feel it. Finally you will be rewarded by the universe because you have already practiced having it already
I want to assure you that once I did this, I would feel relieved and happy because I would take my mind back to this earlier lives and try to apply it in my life to see it from different perspectives and you know what I found my self generating more ideas, I put myself as if I was a young boy who is adventuring with life. I tried any idea which came to my life and see if it would generate me any funds for my use and then try and experiment ideas. I want to tell you that it would work out effectively.

WHICH ONE IS MORE POWERFUL SEX OR MONEY?

2008-05-26T05:12:00.000-07:00

Which is the most adored thing in the world is it wealth money or sex? I discussed with my wife Christine who is a banker and below is her opinion. Read it and you shall be greatly encouraged
LET US TALK ABOUT SEX
Don’t we all love it? It is the Topic or the act. Sex other than money is a powerful human tool that has been used to create and destroy so many and so much. You would think money comes first in people ‘s mind but believe me , you will in almost all minds even of small kids up to one year these words comes into the mind in different forms and shape innocently or in a crude way. We give advice on how to spend money wisely but forget to do so in matters concerning sex. To some it’s a small god and some its shameful word yet 99.9% of human beings do it whether at a tender age or advanced age.

I love both the topic and the act and if you want to know. I have been to different countries in Africa never seen one common thing in every human as sex. Money is made in so many different ways but SEX wherever or whenever has just one major way, but in different areas or places. In almost all communities this word is so sacred even more than the name of GOD. You would almost mention this word as a child to any adult. And “what the hell is that let me never hear you mention it again” I grew up knowing that sex is shameful, dirty and unwanted. I didn’t know whether my parents or any adult did it.

I would see my cousins treated as dirt whenever they got pregnant out of wedlock and that is why when I started it without warning I was so shocked that I could ever do such a dirty yet so sweet thing in my life and that is when I started my rebellion. How can something so marvelous be so shameful I would rather have it and also face the shame I didn’t care then and so much followed after….and that is why I want to open up and freely talk about and there is no shame in sex anytime and its just like having money in your pocket and feeling good about it do I think so?......
More articles can be found at hesbonyambane.com.
Article by Christine Gesare
A banker

WHY ABRAHAM IN THE BIBLE SUCCEEDED?

2008-05-16T01:38:00.000-07:00

When an idea is planted in our hearts it is ours and nobody’s and its only made available to others once we start sharing it, no one understand it and normally people will try to react to it by giving you advice based on their experience in life which can be good or bad but majority of people will try to discourage you from realizing your dream fearing maybe you might defeat them or become successful and be famous and move a step ahead
Let us know that no one will understand our vision better than you and this is why Abraham in Holy Bible once he was given a vision of sacrificing Isaac by God, he never revealed or discussed it to those who were very close to him(wife,relatives,friends and others) because he knew well that, he would have attracted negators and maybe they discourage him and doubted God. he came to tell to his wife after he had accomplished the dream, so what we learn is that if you have a vision of something new you want to do and which changes your life forever don’t look around and see if anyone has done it before or try to ask people to gauge and see if it can work, just know that nobody understands your dream but you, listen, gather information from people but go ahead with your dream and you will never regret in your life, once I started writing about this blog I tried to ask few friends and relatives about the idea of starting a blog which is Christian perspective maybe using the bible examples as a point of reference rather than the way the self development is used to referring great individuals in life like napoleon hill and what they said, we can also use individuals from the Bible like Daniel.Joseph,ElijahAbraham etc because many were millionaires of their time, and we can learn what made them millionaires as we are continuing learning and drawing examples in our life so that we can achieve anything and also realize our purposes in life and you know what many of my people I consulted started discouraging me telling saying it cant work because many people in the self discovery industry are not working like that and then I told them I know if this idea was planted in me, then God who gave it to me Knows the purpose and value it shall bring to the universe, and if nobody will read my opinion well then the universe itself shall read, I just went ahead and amazingly am getting a traffic to my site and God is rewarding me highly and those individuals have started admiring my life saying you were maybe right. And that is why I want to tell you that no one should stop you like Joseph in the Old Testament once he shared the dream to his brothers because they would not understand they tried to kill him but at the end he saved them but never revenged, so go ahead do it anyway and you will reap!
Hesbon Nyambane Kerongo is a leading Authority in self discovery and improvement to success. He is the founder of www.hesbon.blogspot.com the # 1 blog on discovering miraculous powers in us as ranked by Google, Yahoo and other top search engines. He draws his examples from the Holy Bible and has helped many learn why individuals like Abraham were rich people and what did they have that we don’t have, Joseph, Esther,Daniel,etc, visit his blog at www.hesbon.blogspot.com and learn more. Hesbon welcomes any individual who is touched by his articles to send Check or Money order so that he enjoys giving to:
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ask and you shall receive, seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you

2008-05-15T03:55:00.000-07:00

How you can be successful by Asking and receiving, seeking and finding and knocking and getting the door opened and get anything we want in life, the Bible Way.
Many years ago, I began asking the question, “Why are some people more
Successful than others?”

then I started reading the motivational books and going to seminars as I searched for the answers but the other day I was touched by what I read in the Holy Bible in Mathew 7:7 -8 “ask and you shall receive, seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks will receive and anyone who seeks will find and the door will be opened to those who knock. Is a simple but powerful concept that once applied can propel someone to greater heights and achievements in life and can be very successful.
In this life we are created by God and bestowed upon miraculous powers in us which once we conceive of something if we patiently and persist to act upon it we can achieve it, “You are where you are and what you are because of yourself. www.hesbon.blogspot.com
Everything you are today, or ever will be in the future, is up to you. Your life today
Is the sum total result of your choices, decisions and actions up to this point. You
Can create your own future by changing your behaviors. You can make new
Choices and decisions that are more consistent with the person you want to be and the things you want to accomplish with your life.”
Therefore anything you think about either, getting wealth, having good health, getting your dream house, getting that coveted position in an organization If we ask be sure we shall get it and if we seek it we shall find it and if we knock that door shall be opened for us Just think! Everything that you are or ever will be is up to you. And the only real
limit on what you can be, do and have is the limit you place on your own
Imagination. You can take complete control of your destiny by taking complete control of your thoughts, words and actions from this day forward. Many of us have failed to get what we want in life because we don’t ask nor seek or knock but we only wish how sorrowful it is. Our creator gave each one of us powers once used can make us achieve anything we can think of in this life
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Send it:
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HOW DO YOU USE THE ACTING MENTALITY TO ACHIEVE ANYTHING YOU WANT IN LIFE

2008-04-20T21:40:00.000-07:00

many people if you ask them have great ideas in life which can make them live a life full of happiness but fail to act, look upon you life and see whether you are in that group,until i discovered the power of action i ever lived mediocre life full of regrets and i wish i knew,then what is in the power of action,how can you stop wishing and start acting,many other people live on wishes: i wish i have a car i will move many places to visit people, i wish i was the president of such a company i would help many people and even change many lives, what we are forgetting is that we can you the same power yo are wishing for and start doing what you are wishing even if it is in small steps finally you will reach whatever you are dreaming of in life, fore example if we can borrow from the Bible about the story of Daniel and his friends and what we can ,learn from there how they used the power of action to achieve what they dreamed of,
"he asked the king assistant called Ashpaz to allow them after he made up his mind.................... you see here is that they wished and went ahead to ask for it and even start living for it. how wonderful its to start something even if it is small and continue moving and shall see how much you will accomplish. if we ask many people who are successful in life you will learn that they started small and we see them having achieved alot
now what is stopping you, discover miraculous powers in you and start living purposely
until next time live purposely

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PRACTISE SUCCESS HABITS AND START BEING SUCCESSFUL

2008-04-20T00:46:00.000-07:00

why do we have very few people on earth who are successful and the majority are unsuccessful. that is a question asked by many,until i discovered i only thought it was luck that determined or success genes passed from generation to generation. then i started studying about lives and conducts of successful people and how they are doing their things and what amazed me is not what many people are thinking about but is a small matter and that is the way we think. our thoughts can make us successful or unsuccessful,so if we want to succeed in life we must start learning on how to adopt success thoughts in our lives,the bible says as man thinketh so he is and that means what we think most of the time determines our action and so our habit, many successful individuals in history have discovered this secret and started using it which has made the successful and the good thing is that anyone can learn and changes his destiny

now discover miraculous powers in you and live purposely

Now live purposely
Hesbon Nyambane

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IF YOU CHANGE YOUR THINKING ,GOD CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

2008-04-19T22:49:00.000-07:00

Today am going to share with you a success secret which will change your life forever and you will start living a purposeful. No matter what you've gone through in the past, no matter how many setbacks you've suffered or who or what has tied to thwart your progress,today is a new day and God wants to do a new thing in your life because He has great things in store for you. Don't let the past dictate your future. Maybe you have often set standards which are too low living without enough money, you are staying with a spouse who is abusive or living not according to your dreams or goals. Don't worry here is the key question: are you willing to change your thinking? if you change your thinking God will change your life. you cant go around thinking of thoughts of defeat and failure and expect God to fill you with joy,power or victory. You cant go around thinking thoughts of poverty and lack and expect God to fill you with abundance.let us now not allow narrow limited mindset in our lives.
start discovering miraculous powers in you and live a purposeful life

live purposely
Hesbon Nyambane

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